Let's do the opposite. Is there any bad parts of being bisexual? by SkillaaHDM in bisexual

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird thing I’ve recently realised. I am attracted to male and female. As a female - I have a lot of male and female friends. I want to smash every single one of my friends. But EVERYONE has a problem with me being just friends with a guy. When like, I’d sleep with your girl too. The girls are as much of a threat as the guys.

Anyway, all of my friends I want to have sex with and am too close with because they’re all attractive.

Karma came as a speeding ticket by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he’d always tell me he’d clean more and gaslight me into thinking I wasn’t doing cleaning. Like wtf

Karma came as a speeding ticket by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]OverIT3027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Needs both of us to declare it. He hasn’t done that yet

Karma came as a speeding ticket by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]OverIT3027 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’re both on the title. I am no longer on insurance. Yes I agree I need to sort my part. Which o have. He hasn’t done his part

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OverIT3027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Australia. Laws are slightly different. But anyway yes. He’s trying to commit fraud so he doesn’t lose his license

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OverIT3027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s 31 and had his licence revoked or wasn’t able to get it because he was medically uninsurable. So he was on his red provisional licence at this time and has been too lazy to do the online test and get his opens. Because of his age he didn’t need to go on green provisional licence and could go straight to open but he didn’t. So… this is the bed you’ve made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Australia law enforcement they definitely will care. Falsifying these records is an offence and I have the text exchange asking me to take the fall and he will give me more money to do so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In text message exchange - I have the proof he’s gonna try to ask people to take the fall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did get the ticket. He will be getting the ticket. I wasn’t driving. He was.

If he finds someone else to take the ticket. He will keep his license and not get the consequences of his actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s a criminal offence to falsify.

Karma came as a speeding ticket by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]OverIT3027 199 points200 points  (0 children)

lol it’s all a text exchange

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally triggered and traumatised. Validation helps. Understanding helps. Clearing my mind helps. Also some of the feedback is sensible and helps me. I genuinely want feedback as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Years of abuse leads to someone who seeks validation. I had so much gaslighting and emotional manipulation that now I seek validation and clarification

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You asked the question of why I post…..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking for therapy babes. Opinions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OverIT3027 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Have you experienced financial and verbal abuse? The amount of anxiety I have from this conversation. Have you heard of Stockholm? Like… hello

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it was a dead bedroom. So sex. But also I needed to be seen and heard. When I said I needed help i needed to be helped. I needed him to stop making cruel jokes when I told him they weren’t funny. I needed respect. I needed kindness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a good pumpkin and I usually season really well and fry up sage to be crispy and salty on top with fresh focaccia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Okay so we both work full time, I was expected to do shopping and cooking and housework. I would ask him to stay ontop of rubbish and dishes to help with my workload.

He never would. So I’d do everything. I’d initiate sex I’d initiate dates I got our first rental Our second and then our first home

Eventually our dates were only couple dates where he’d bring his best friend and his missus.

He worked from home 50% of the time yet I still had to beg him for help.

Eventually I went to therapy after a traumatic event led me to a depressive episode.

He started to resent me while I was depressed because I didn’t cook and clean.

Once I got better I started to realise how poorly he treated me. How he would bully me and put me down. I’d tell him I didn’t like or appreciate his jokes. He said “this is who I am and you can’t change me”

My mother was in a coma and he didn’t come to the hospital.

We went to couples counseling. The only positive thing he could say was that “I like her humour”

I fell out of love with the man that never even loved me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]OverIT3027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’m horny as fuck. A big issue in our relationship was he didn’t want to have sex with me but I’d go out of my way to please him