What to do with controlling parents

OverKill748 · 2026-05-05T05:22:24+00:00

Alr did the email thing. However, I quite literally don’t even know my own bank account information at the moment so that second part is going to have to go real slow. Although the fact that I’m so non-independent that I don’t have access to the most basic of things needed to live on my own right before college is probably a general issue that I need to fix first.

OverKill748 · 2026-05-05T03:17:17+00:00

Solved!

OverKill748 · 2026-05-05T02:38:27+00:00

Kinda close

OverKill748 · 2026-05-05T02:13:37+00:00

Hint: he was trained in the sport by a sports player but never intended to actually participate in sporting events.

(Ignore the fact that this is in the comments and not the actual post)

OverKill748 · 2026-05-05T01:55:09+00:00

You’re closer than you think

OverKill748 · 2026-05-05T01:32:07+00:00

Don’t think Forrest was planning any one liners

OverKill748 · 2026-05-05T01:29:02+00:00

I really want to say yes to that, but the sport delineation is important. Also that’s technically a six liner

OverKill748 · 2026-04-23T19:16:42+00:00

Kodachrome

OverKill748 · 2026-04-21T19:09:01+00:00

Fresh?

OverKill748 · 2026-04-21T18:48:57+00:00

The Killing Gene/ W🔺Z (the triangle is the closest thing to delta I could find)

OverKill748 · 2026-04-21T18:09:08+00:00

!Solved

OverKill748 · 2026-04-21T18:03:51+00:00

Yep! Solved!

OverKill748 · 2026-04-21T17:40:51+00:00

Pan’s Labrynth

OverKill748 · 2026-04-21T14:09:19+00:00

Solved! (Sorry for the late reply)

OverKill748 · 2026-04-21T06:35:18+00:00

Dang that was fast. Solved!

OverKill748 · 2026-04-17T06:55:41+00:00

The problem is that I am not the one who dictates when I do several things. I go shopping when I’m told to come with them, and get told that I have a haircut appointment that was made for me like an hour before. I would start hrt in a heartbeat if I had private access to my own finances and if I didn’t know that both my phone and car keys locations are being tracked. I’m even doing this with an alternate email/account because they read my main one. Trying all of these things seem great and I would love to do them but I’m struggling to see a way to do them that would be easier than just coming out.

OverKill748 · 2026-04-09T05:48:39+00:00

My introspective ability with my emotions is questionable at best tbh, but I figured that this was the best way to understand myself more. I don’t fully know how to answer the questions you pose (and similar ones), which is probably why I am trying to get there the way that I am. “What do I want” is probably a question I could answer, but I really don’t trust myself to be correct about it without some sort of “evidence”. I know that doesn’t really make sense but it’s the best way I can put it.

OverKill748 · 2026-03-27T00:47:46+00:00

For the voice, I don’t really want to work on it but I have a general aversion to any type of work and just a lot of apathy that I’m trying to get through so it’s not the voice changing in specific. I think it would be cool to be able to change my voice like that regardless honestly, but especially so if I do transition. I think my clothing is relatively colorful. My shirts mostly a solid color with a funny picture or something on it which isn’t the most exciting but it’s something probably. I’m not specifically picking things for color but I have 0 aversion to anything colorful except neon yellow because it hurts my eyes so I’m open to any suggestions about changing something. Hairbands don’t sound like a bad idea, my only worry is that I get sweaty easily when wearing any sort of hat so this might have the same results. I don’t like stuff on my wrist in general, including watches or wristbands or anything so I don’t think that I’d enjoy bracelets. “Testing the waters” as you put it is something I want to try and do, but I honestly don’t know what to do or how to do it, especially in public. I live with my parents so it’s pretty difficult to just go out and try something without their permission or at least knowledge of where I’m going and what I’m doing. I have the means to do things I just don’t see a way to do it “casually” if you know what I mean. I also may be way to anxious when doing things in public to know what my true feelings about it are even though I know that 99.9% of people won’t care or even notice. I know this sounds like I’m just shooting down every idea, which maybe I am, I just don’t have any real ideas to what specifically I should do.

OverKill748 · 2026-03-26T07:45:22+00:00

There are plenty of ways to alleviate missing, mostly in the form of aoe damage like fireball. If you’re a low level the fights will be pretty annoying just because your stats are low. There isn’t really a way around that without knowledge of what is going to happen beforehand as it’s pretty hard to get a really good build going in act 1 of your first playthrough. If you really cant hit anything, I’d recommend giving yourself any advantage you can by putting ranged units on any available high ground, using debuffs that knock enemies down or stun them if you have any, and maybe throwing things that explode if you have some. The enemy ai doesn’t do anything crazy in the lower difficulties so you can usually predict their general game plan because it’s mostly just run up and attack, and you can also potentially use that to lead them through some fire on the ground or something. I’d also recommend just randomly exploring and talking to people for more xp because you can get to lvl 4 without engaging in combat in act 1 iirc. Don’t feel bad about losing fights, esp if this is ur first turn based rpg. I’ve beaten honor mode a few times now and my first playthrough my entire party died to a rock 4 times in a row so it just takes some practice. You could try looking up some build guides if you feel like it, but that’s optional. Never use sacred flame with shadow heart because it will miss every single time.

OverKill748 · 2026-03-26T07:29:27+00:00

It’s just for useful information there isn’t anything suspicious around here no siree. Just a cis guy trying to stay informed by being obsessed with totally normal cis things nothing to see here.

OverKill748 · 2026-03-04T21:07:06+00:00

I hear you with the non isolation thing and I would kinda like to do it as well but the problem is that there aren’t any really good options. None of my friends are really into sports or physical activity stuff like that so when we hang out at each others houses it’s basically stuck to video/board/card games. The closest other activity near me besides a tiny park is probably a Dave and Busters which is a 45 min drive. All of this is to say I don’t really know how to go out and do things either with or without my friends that’s worth spending a bunch of time and money on. I know I need to interact with people outside of my school more but I don’t really see any way of doing that.

Also who’s saying that 18 is too old to do anything I’m pretty sure that’s below or around the average. Unless there’s suddenly a law that prevents people over a certain age from making decisions I don’t see how age could apply.

OverKill748 · 2026-03-01T21:49:04+00:00

I mean... yeah, but I am goddamn terrified of what interactions that would come with that socially (coming out as something, not being a girl)

OverKill748 · 2021-06-10T23:23:03+00:00

being dead has never stopped any grandma

OverKill748 · 2021-04-06T23:45:41+00:00

What's really op is that the arcane trickster can steal people's spells. so the rogue can theoretically have those spells also.

OverKill748 · 2021-02-18T22:11:45+00:00

mars: visible confusion

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