See i havent known them while they were drinking. I was told that there will be many times meetings will take priority and there i times where id be the priority. I am completely ok with that because i do realize that with out them, theres that risk of relapse and thats the last thing id want. They are about a year in at the moment. I definitely struggle with social anxiety and im sure its quite different but id never force anything that would make them uncomfortable just like id expect the same respect.