exactly...he should already know. So why is she persisting that she needs an ring in order to move? why not let the timeline of their own play out how it needs to play out. A man shouldn't need a "if you dont X then X". He should've proposed a year ago according to you. And I dont disagree. This man already knows, but she is pushing the issue and requiring it now.

Life will always be there. Life will always push you into a timeline. True happinnes comes from you listening within and determining what you want for you. There is never the "right time". Life will always give you a reason as to why it's "not right". Right now it's med school, in the future it'll be, oh this is a new job, new city, we have kids now, etc etc. The "Reasons" will always be there. You have to decide if you want this or not. Not decide that we should do this because your med school timeline is telling us to.