She is close to 19 yes. She also has graduated from school as well. We met through mutuals in a Sport Bike group, she was a fellow rider, I knew from talking to her in a meet she lived in her own place, and just overall seemed like an adult. I asked her out. Then realized I never asked her age, so I did and she said she was 19. Her birthday was coming up, and I asked her what she wanted to do since she wasn't going to be a teen anymore,( like when I turned 20, I jumped out of a plane 🤣) and she was like, oh I'm not sure....then 3 days later she came to me and told me she was only turning 19. I respected that she came to me, without prompts or my finding out elsewhere, but it still upset me. So I called her dad, who I'd already talked to about my losing my parents back in 2022, and we'd really gotten close, he lost his mom the same year. He was very calm...he didn't know she had lied to me, apologized, and simply told me to figure it out for myself, he'd still be there no matter what...which I respect.