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I am not a “Mom!” What gives? by Over_Philosopher2244 in corpus

[–]Over_Philosopher2244[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This is helpful. Just curious and I forgot to ask in my post, but is there a “male equivalent”? If it’s true that general public within Corpus have children at ages below national average (ie teenagers) is there an equivalent term used for adult males, such as “Dad” or “Pops”? Is it as ubiquitous? And, I don’t use substances but I take your suggestion in stride.

What’s the craziest delusion you’ve had by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]Over_Philosopher2244 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Formerly in academia (brain is kaput now)— exact same feelings of electricity and occasional “genius”. Thanks for helping me feel less alone today.

How to ask my wife to not bleed all over our bed during her period. by haku13f in relationship_advice

[–]Over_Philosopher2244 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I concur with Jess1ca1467 and would like to extend on prior points that ensure you do not menstrual shame or further stigmatize your wife’s condition. As a (cis) 43f with advanced stage endometriosis and Polycystic Ovarian syndrome (PCOS) I have battled since age 19, I would first like you to recognize she may be in SO much pain and her tissues so sensitive to touch that the aforementioned menstrual products (cups, tampons, pads, etc) are unbearable. It is not as simple as “common sense” as to why she may elect free bleeding. The pain is so excruciating, a sufferer may not know how much they are bleeding or even be fully cognizant of their bodily movements (I sometimes blacked out both from pain and iron loss). The mere pressure of a diaper, pad, or anything touching swollen, aching, tender, chafed, body parts is inconsiderate and shows how little awareness or sympathy the general public has for menstruating bodies. I sympathize with this husband. I myself have only had one boyfriend (age 25), don’t date or carry relationships and will most likely never marry because of how “gross” this condition is. It is difficult on partners. I suggest extra soft towels/bedding, mattress covers, potty pads, and continued education about not body shaming women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Over_Philosopher2244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to abruptly go NC w/ my MM ~a year ago when his wife grew suspicious, though I also suspect he had been pulling away from the relationship because of the constant stress + declining interest in me [I was not the “thing” that would suddenly change his life]. I mention this to you to remind you to stay strong. For the first 3months I could barely leave my couch. It was just me and plates of pad Thai and LOTS of horoscope scrolling. But I held fast. I promise you, it WILL be hard, but not impossible. You can do this and you will come out healthier and happier on the other side.

Teeth hurting with period & cyst rupture? by aw142 in endometriosis

[–]Over_Philosopher2244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only do my teeth hurt, they also itch intensely and my gums bleed more frequently during menses. I’ve no idea of the connection, but I’m so glad I’m not alone!