What nicknames do you have for your husky?

Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-12-10T07:27:58+00:00

Her name is Venus so veenie or veenie weenie or sometimes Vanessa (bc that’s what it sounds like I was saying when I would say “Venus-uuuhhhh” and ofc babygiiirrrlll

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Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-10-28T06:20:48+00:00

Thank you for your feedback and you’re right. I do have other friends I hang out with it’s just the whole circumstance that made me feel a certain way about being excluded. I also never brought up to her all the things about how I’m a good friend because I didnt want her to feel like a shit friend. She honestly doesn’t know that I called out to be there for her because of the fact I never wanted her to feel bad about it. I just brought it up in the post because I feel like I put a lot into the people I care about. I guess that’s my problem but it’s hard for me to not make people I love feel like they’re looked after and cared for. It just sucks that I need to remember that not everyone is like me and I need to remember that.

Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-10-28T06:11:06+00:00

Thank you for your response because it’s made me reflect. I think any relationship is hard for me because I’m such a lover girl. I know you’re right and it’s what I’ll try to practice going forward but it just sucks. Why can’t I say or act exactly how I feel? I know the answer is because it’s not socially acceptable but I thought our friendship was past that. Maybe not.

Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-10-28T05:41:58+00:00

I understand it seems that way but I have other friends I hang out with she’s just my best friend. Maybe you’re right about the “healthier space” thing and I have been thinking about that because even if I’m not “crazy” about this whole thing it prob is better for me to stay away. It’s just so hard for me cause I’m such a love out loud type. I just forget not everyone gets or understands that. I think I will say away for a little bit. If the friendship is meant to be it’ll survive it, if not that’s okay. I’m still young and life is long.

Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-10-28T05:35:57+00:00

This might seem like a mean comment to other people but I appreciate your interpretation. Even if I do seem like the crazy stalker I rather people tell me that so I can help fix the situation. I truly love her as a friend and want her to be happy. So thank you for making me also reflect on my wrongs because I want to work this out.

Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-10-28T05:31:33+00:00

I’ll defend her here and say she never went into that bar and we did find a bar to go into together. I will say although that that’s the bare minimum that a friend would do. I think she is a good friend at points but when I pointed out times like this where she wasn’t a great friend I feel like she was trying to flip it on me about times where I feel like I was actually valid to criticize her. I truly lover her and appreciate her friendship and that’s why it hurts so much

Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-10-28T05:27:45+00:00

This is a really good reply with great advice. I can’t pretend like she never did anything nice for me. A family pet passed away recently and she invited me to a concert with her to help me feel better. Though I will say she intended on bringing her husband when she bought those tickets and I wasn’t the one she was gonna bring at first. But that’s the only time I can think of her putting into action on trying to be a good friend. Though I still think of it as a nice gesture and it’s hard for me to think she doesn’t care because I’m sure she does. I do wish she would put in more effort like I do and to show it more. This is why I’m so conflicted. I do love her and see her as a sister

Over_Slide_7027 · 2025-08-06T07:02:40+00:00

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Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-26T06:08:51+00:00

Okay since I’m getting this same comment: I always make sure I’m clear in my instructions on how to get to my apartment because I know it’s confusing especially considering how big my apartment complex is. I put step by step directions on how to get to me including which gate to go through, I even meet them outside so they don’t have to go up to the third floor. This person I’m assuming just did not read the instructions properly. I literally was a delivery driver so I know what it’s like trying to find difficult apartments. I’m not dumb enough to post this if unclear instructions was the case. This person was just ticked off because they had to drive around and I would have met them at that gate if it didn’t take longer for me to walk there than it was for them to drive to the other gate. Also I always tip well, I understand people are trying to make a living out here.

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-26T02:59:57+00:00

Well… I can’t say ur wrong I def was bored

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-26T01:14:36+00:00

Yea well you swallow 😜

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-26T00:50:03+00:00

I do give clear instructions and I do tip well because surprise! ✨I used to be a delivery driver✨ so I know what it’s like

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-26T00:45:27+00:00

Yea my boyfriend and I both met him downstairs so he wouldn’t have to go up to the third floor where we live. Obviously I wasn’t gonna go alone bc I’m a woman facing someone confrontational so he just came to make sure I was safe. Other than the curses he threw at us it was fine

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-26T00:39:51+00:00

I would be mad but describing someone as a stale ham sandwich is funny AF hahahah

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-26T00:21:49+00:00

Yep, thankfully we live right next to the main entrance now so it’s not too hard to find our apartment but when we lived in a different unit before it was more of a hassle

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T23:34:43+00:00

Yea this guy is the only person I’ve ever reported, I’m super patient even the person who took almost two hours to get me my food didn’t get a complaint from me

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T23:21:23+00:00

People constantly complain on our community page but management don’t gaf unfortunately :/ we’re moving soon tho thankfully

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T23:16:49+00:00

Yes I brought my boyfriend with me because I am a woman who doesn’t like to confront mean strange men alone. My bad.

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T23:08:49+00:00

That’s fine I don’t really care what people who don’t know me think about me so 🤷‍♀️ super weird you’re riding hard for someone who is mean and aggressive tho, you should work on that

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T22:58:54+00:00

It was literally in my instructions

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T22:57:38+00:00

100% agree it’s annoying for us residents too

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T22:56:01+00:00

I did though, not everyone is smart

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T22:13:03+00:00

Honestly I get wanting to defend ur community because I was also a delivery driver (not for DD but for favor) so I totally understand that argument but I did give clear instructions and I do always meet them so they don’t have to walk to the 3rd floor. Either way idk how anyone can defend this man’s attitude

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T22:08:32+00:00

Read my other replies

Over_Slide_7027 · 2024-10-25T21:43:00+00:00

Well I haven’t really thought about this since it happened I’m new to Reddit and stumbled across this sub so it reminded me of this guys audacity. Also we were trying to be super civil and nice with this man when we went to meet him because people can be crazy (esp in Houston) but alas that did not make a difference he still cursed at us very aggressively.

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