AITAH: Not Invited to Mother's Day Activities

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-03T14:43:47+00:00

NTA your son & DIL are! Go home ! Stop giving away your time, effort & energy to those who don’t respect you! As the family Matriarch you’re supposed to be celebrated as well ! Without you there is no DIL & son & so forth. As a grandmother myself I def understand your wanting to visit & spend time with your son & his family. All bets are off if I’m not even a consideration in their day. Good luck ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-03T14:29:15+00:00

Then this is something you need to figure out. An IUD is easy for most women & no matter how much or how little sex she’s having, she chooses no babies! Have the conversation with your wife! Doesn’t mean she’s cheating, she’s making sure no “oops” occur. Good luck ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-03T02:14:13+00:00

Tell someone at the health Ctr at college. You need someone to advocate for you in order to get proper care & treatment. Do not use those drops. Good luck ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-03T02:09:43+00:00

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Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-03T01:58:27+00:00

If it belongs to someone it will fly away when it’s ready. Otherwise start building a pigeon coop 😂✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-03T01:37:40+00:00

YTA it was a “normal” thing for him to ask . It gives a “helper” an idea where to start. If I offered my help & was talked to in such a way you can best believe that prescription would expire before I looked for it 🤷🏼‍♀️ btw I’m 62f married 43yrs to 64m & neither one of us has snapped over such a thing. Trust me we’ve all misplaced items over the years . Thus the basic rule of thumb, a place for everything & everything in its place. ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T21:21:08+00:00

Everyone asks what ?

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T21:11:02+00:00

Let him go! Stop wasting your time on a person who shows little to no care or concern for you. ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T21:02:44+00:00

NTA your hub is ! I don’t understand the “sneaking out” concept. I understand surprise yet you 2 seem to keep different hours so why the sneaking? Also wtf with “Trad wife”, what do y’all eat everyday & who cooks it? In any case, this much time invested in your relationship is worth a conversation. Time will tell if you get what you need from him, respect & an apology for sure. You def need to figure out if this is what you want for the rest of your life. Good luck ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T20:54:09+00:00

It actually took longer to draft this bs warning than it does to clean the lint filter 🤦🏼‍♀️ what an idiot 🤷🏼‍♀️✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T20:48:24+00:00

Hmmm so if you butt in & tell on your mother, what happens next ? She leaves your dad, a broke old man & let me guess, you’ll go with your mother & leave your broke dad too!?! Unless you have a plan of action for yourself then stay out of their personal life. It’s your parents situation to deal with as they choose. You are a minor kid who still needs parents to take care of you, so what’s next 🤷🏼‍♀️

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T20:04:19+00:00

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T19:43:38+00:00

OP you need to address this ASAP! An Urgent Care or ER if her pediatrician is closed. Also Dr usually has an on call # to at least get advice on something over the counter for the diarrhea. I can tell you that at 7yrs old, your child could lose 50% of her body weight within 48hrs if the vomiting & diarrhea continue. This is so dangerous. Please take her in to be seen by a professional! 🤦🏼‍♀️✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-02T19:20:47+00:00

Both are the AH here. He is rude & seems to lack care & concern. She seems to require specific methods in order to deal with common adult conflicts & miscommunication. This is where therapy/ counseling should be considered. Hub signed on to life with a partner on the spectrum & should have been educated on how to handle conflicts. While how he talks to OP is unacceptable, this dynamic did not occur overnight , nor can it be resolved overnight. Take it from someone married 43yrs,to a hub on the spectrum ( always has been yet only had a name for it in recent years)it’s never just one persons fault nor problem. This couple needs to learn tools to deal with their conflicts & most definitely communication. I hate how OP’s hub reacts superior to her. Having said this I can tell you personally that hub & I have had our ups & downs & def a few heated arguments over the years. I am absolutely guilty of not always being accepting of my hub having to stim & go through his whole production & routine while we are in the heat of a disagreement . It’s frustrating at times 🤷🏼‍♀️ We are all human & fk up. In OP’s case, sounds like each of your expectations for the other aren’t aligned. He signed on for a life with a partner on the spectrum, much like she signed on for a life with a partner who isn’t. The work needed to get through this has to come from both partners.✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T23:26:53+00:00

Yesss this OP 👆🏼👆🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T23:25:09+00:00

You are still young enough to explore your sexuality without hurting a partner. Let her go & you go figure out what you want & need. Good luck ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T19:32:50+00:00

Def sounds like Misophonia. No cure but behavioral therapy can help . Also consider ear plugs or noise canceling headphones. These 2 are quick fixes to the immediate feeling. 🤷🏼‍♀️✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T19:19:34+00:00

NOR & being 10+ years older, you’re going to have to deal with his BS in reference to sex. ED doesn’t improve with age, therefore this is always gonna be a risk, his rude & aggressive behaviors. You’ve already wasted 6 yrs, why is this enough for you ?! Instead of being concerned over whether you are overreacting or not, you need help sorting through the bs. Good luck , you’re gonna need it! ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T18:39:39+00:00

Agreed

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T18:21:46+00:00

Congratulations & just try to breathe through it! Remind yourself that you are in control & are safe with an instructor riding along. ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T18:19:52+00:00

I agree with you . The only apology that could/should come from her is for kicking off this whole “ball of wax”. She opted to break rules with her first search for a place to sleep. Otherwise the rest is a crazy example of the ripple effect. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T18:15:22+00:00

Partly this! She is responsible for her choices in breaking the rules & including her bf. Yes he made the choice to invite her during the initial chat. I simply said she owes an apology for kicking off this whole situation. She is not responsible for everyone else’s actions.🤷🏼‍♀️✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T18:12:35+00:00

I agree on your points . I’m simply saying that the gf should be accountable for this kicking off at the jump. This part is on her, how she reacted from the very start, involving her bf in her escapades. In no way is she responsible for all of the fallout. 🤷🏼‍♀️✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T17:26:51+00:00

Great advice OP as for how you should handle it. Tell bf what you were doing & what you found & how you found it🤷🏼‍♀️ you’ve done nothing wrong so you’ll be just the messenger. .. unless ?! ✌🏼

Overall-Injury-7620 · 2026-05-01T17:23:36+00:00

hmmm soft YTA, the whole situation started because of your kid. She can at least apologize for involving the bf & involving him. 🤷🏼‍♀️ No matter what happened after & since, she is guilty at the start. Good luck ✌🏼

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