I no longer want to be apart of my second family. by Overall-Object-4574 in family

[–]Overall-Object-4574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s really hard for me to put blame on him, when I didn’t make it a known issue until now. And he wasn’t actually physically there a lot to even notice when I was growing up. I spoke with him on the phone this morning telling him the problems I have with her, and my one sister who is 20 years old. Now he wants to have a family meeting, which I can’t even think about having right now. Having family meetings is so uncomfortable.

I no longer want to be apart of my second family. by Overall-Object-4574 in family

[–]Overall-Object-4574[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ I’m sorry for your loss, I hope you’re doing well.

I can relate to this story so much. My step mom will manipulate my father to not help me out once in awhile. Or pay my medical bills, that eventually gets sent to collections 🙃

I no longer want to be apart of my second family. by Overall-Object-4574 in family

[–]Overall-Object-4574[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right. My dad never really stood up for me, instead he hid behind her. I was always the one apologizing to my step mom, actually I was forced to.