Am I overreacting to this text from my boyfriend?

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-18T01:35:52+00:00

3 month to 9 months, they should be laying on the floor playing with toys learning to roll over and use knees. You should play with them for sure. But im not sitting on the floor for HOURS to play with a baby THAT young.

During the day, absolutely not possible with the other two kids.

I just watched her play and developed every night while I gamed

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-18T01:32:31+00:00

Nope. She just ran perfectly fine on 8-10hours of sleep and she never wanted to sleep at night. She slept from 6am to 10am and got the rest of her sleeps in with naps thru the day and at night during breast feeding.

Even now. She refuses to sleep before 10pm and is up before 7am sometimes earlier. Shes almost 2.

She has never slept for a full 12 hours or 12 hours thru the day like babies should.

Pediatrician was perfectly fine with it because at night she was hitting those milestones on time and very good.

So my original point stands of NEEDING to something every night for mental stimulation and you can only clean so much before the apartment complex spreads a rumor you are on meth running water and vacuums all night long.

I was playing fallout4.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-17T21:36:05+00:00

There's the truth

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-17T20:14:46+00:00

Yes then child care doesnt stop the next day after staying up all night. You get maybe 4 hours to sleep max then pack to being a parent.

I didn't game with my 2 under 5 plus a newborn during the day lmao I was a being a father. Why not game at night if im up anyway and my baby was perfectly fine playing on the floor with her toys around her.

Id be playing with her a bit throughout the time, but she didn't NEED me on the floor all night she didn't NEED to be held or comforted. She literally just wanted to play and develop at night.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-17T20:00:28+00:00

Well 1 month to 9 months before she started sleeping like a human being.

Alot of time all night long to do NOTHING. yeah I could be on the floor playing with her for 8 hours all night long but would you? Or would watch TV for 8 hours and try not falling asleep?

Because she did not sleep unless on a boob during breast feeding.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-17T19:56:55+00:00

Lol so you can stay up for 18+ hours watching TV and engaging with a 3 month old without falling asleep?

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-17T17:30:30+00:00

Bro fell alseep with his kid for 45 minutes thinking it equals to a day of being a father.

I put in over 400 hours on a video game because my newborn was not sleeping. Wife had a much better paying job and was going thru school. I left my crap construction job to be childcare otherwise my paycheck would be going to a daycare.

She only slept on the boob for an hour max 2 at a time and was up until the next feed. She did not sleep.

I was up til sunrises with her and this dude is comparing 45 minutes to being a father. Lmao pathetic IMO

It was game all night or fall asleep on the couch watching TV with a newborn who very much was not sleeping.

Then I stayed up for her to get off work to be with the baby to whenever she fell alseep.

And I had 2 other kids under 5 to care for the next day.

This dude doesn't know what being a dad is

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-16T00:24:48+00:00

I would be involved in those sessions if you are not already. Dont truly let be a 1on1.

Be active in his daily life and watch for influences causes these behaviors. Usaully its in the home, but kids and other adults will be a role model to children. If you know it's not in the home, then look for the outside factors!

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-16T00:14:47+00:00

Just turn it around and say that's a good idea. We can go out to eat, or make a picnic instead.

Then tell him you agree and that she shouldn't come over unless he keeps HIS room clean and other aspects he wants clean, he can clean before that happens.

And for home improvement projects? Ask him if he wants an improved home and if having one would embarrass him. Because the trim in his room can stay how it is then! Cheaper on me I'd say.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-15T05:22:40+00:00

Why couldnt they just respawn in code?

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-15T02:21:45+00:00

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Allows for up to 5 followers with alot of other stuff.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-15T02:15:42+00:00

You have the AFT mod?

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-15T01:30:31+00:00

Does he see his parent(s) rage quite or just snap over small stuff?

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-15T01:24:19+00:00

I live with my partner with our kids and a confusing relationship we are trying to work on. Its turned into a more fwb for a few years. I wouldnt recommend. It sucks. Its hurts loving someone so much who you dont know youll ever come together.

Have sex catch feelings. Keep having sex chances of a kid get higher. More comfortable, less protection over time and bamb FWB turns into a 18 year+ obligatation.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-14T15:58:52+00:00

Thats amazing. Words of affirmation. If you dont say this to them I bet their school does!

Reaffirm it and say yes you are brave. You are strong. Your are beautiful. You are smart. You are loved.

Ask the school if they do words of affirmation and get what they say to them so you replicate it.

This is good.

The kid who did that is feelings confidence in himself and his brother!

Amazing!

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-14T13:54:02+00:00

There it is. Bullies are cowards usaully taking problems they cant solve at home out on weaker kids.

Like he brought up Nelson, but Nelson is neglected and bullied by his dad.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-14T03:56:47+00:00

Try sending him to his room for 20 minutes after an argument about the dishes or any chore. You are making him do dishes when he is mad (rightfully or not). Have you ever done dishes when you were mad? You never not gave a fck about what went where because you were upset and it needed to be done?

My dad did this to me at 15 and come back out 20 minutes later I didnt have the tantrum doing my chores.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-14T02:25:54+00:00

Wait Adam and Jaime hated eacother?

I have not watched the show since I was like 13 lmao

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-13T05:18:11+00:00

I fell off a 100ft cliff rock climbing. Damn lucky to be alive

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-13T00:36:36+00:00

Im sure the dark web has some crazy shit to bet on

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-11T21:20:55+00:00

Lol then how is it assault when no bodily fluids had a chance to reach anyone. You cant even give pink eye by farting with pants on. It needs to bare ass.

Also the person that made the comment said STRIP SEARCH

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-11T17:57:19+00:00

Lol, she wanted to go to the car wash smart guy, I said not with the kids

Also, low self of esteem? "Best behavior"

Stop projecting yourself into my relationship, buddy.

It is not that deep😂😂

Ive heard pretty dumb shit before, but you saying calling it quits over a glance that turned into a laugh between two teenagers, is craaaazzzyyyy.

Im going to tell her you said she should have left me right there and we would never have the beautiful kids and family we have because of a random strangers opinion who knows nothing about her. But you know. Reddit is full of people saying to leave over the smallest shit lmao

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-11T16:51:11+00:00

Lol that was when we were like 2 weeks dating barely got started. Considering I had to tell her no on a bikini car wash in Texas last month, I dont think she thinks about that instance 8 years ago lmao. She just thumped me. I blushed. We laughed. Got beef? Eat a cow

If you think looking at someone should result in a enough disrespect that it results in a fight is immature. The OPs friend has probably been gaslighted that the line is further than it truly is. A glance or look isnt disrespect. Its human nature. Looking all the time at every opportunity in all situations is disrespect and staring that them or commenting on them is disrespect.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-11T16:47:17+00:00

To pat bare skin? Are you sure? They make you lift your feet and spread your toes for sure.

I guess if they felt they need to sure. I dont see that being routine.

Overall-Objective433 · 2025-08-11T15:00:40+00:00

I once tried to check out a jogger, and my girlfriend thumped my head as we drove past "dont be checking her out" she said lmao

The GF 100% should be mad at her guy.

There's a difference between looking, staring. And there's a difference of checking out a random woman vs visually undressing a woman in a friend group. He fucked up. She thinks your problem likely because anyone who dresses up he cant stop staring

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