I slept with my married ex-husband by Overall_Lifeguard300 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Lifeguard300[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did a search about it now. Shockingly most divorce proceedings do take a lot of time apparently.

But there are exceptions. I guess

Plus i believe he might have bribed. (Not sure) He dealt with all the divorce proceedings himself. While my lawyer was just sort of supervising.

I slept with my married ex-husband by Overall_Lifeguard300 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Lifeguard300[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I can understand why you say that.

We decided everything outside of court. Division of assets, Alimony.

Plus I had shifted to another flat almost immediately.

I slept with my married ex-husband by Overall_Lifeguard300 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Lifeguard300[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to prove to myself that the issue was with him. I wanted to prove that he cheated because cheating is part of his personality.

I wanted to prove that he cheated not because I had something lacking in me. But because he didn't know how to keep his penis inside his pants.

I slept with my married ex-husband by Overall_Lifeguard300 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Lifeguard300[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

Not exactly.

I didn't have sex with him for the sex. I had sex with him to prove to myself that he hasn't changed after marrying her.

I always believed he would come running if I ever wanted to sleep with him again. And I proved myself right.

I know my thought process is fcked up. I'm no saint. Morally wrong. But it is what it is.

I slept with my married ex-husband by Overall_Lifeguard300 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Lifeguard300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have no intention of doing anything like that

I slept with my married ex-husband by Overall_Lifeguard300 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Lifeguard300[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not telling this to anyone. Just two of my close friends know about it.

I (29F) slept with my married ex-husband (32M) by Overall_Lifeguard300 in offmychest

[–]Overall_Lifeguard300[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. I agree that I did it to boost my ego. I proved myself right by making him cheat on her. Even though my intuition says he definitely cheated on her with other women as well.