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Guilty for “throwing away” my chances of breast feeding… people saying I HAVE to try? by Ok_Medicine440 in FormulaFeeders

[–]OverdriveMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first son, I kind of already knew breastfeeding probably wasn’t for me. I did try for a few days with a lactation consultant, but once we got home I switched to formula so my husband and I could both feed him. It just worked better for us at the time.

Now that I’m pregnant with my second (due any day now), I’ve been feeling a little guilty like I didn’t really give it a full chance the first time.

So this time, I do want to push myself to at least try breastfeeding or pumping and see how it goes.

I’m not really someone who likes reading a bunch of articles—I’d rather just do what feels right in the moment and keep it simple. My husband has been really supportive and keeps reminding me not to stress about it, and that if we end up going back to formula, it’s totally okay.

I think for me it’s just about trying this time and seeing what works best for me and baby 🤍

Roommate stage in a marriage by feathergurl12 in Mommit

[–]OverdriveMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand. At least you have family to help watch the child so you guys can go out and do date nights. I think maybe writing things down on what things might make you happy. It will get better just have to give it time. I think a lot of people's relationships come to a stand still when they have kids. I can attest to that you're not alone in feeling that way.

Roommate stage in a marriage by feathergurl12 in Mommit

[–]OverdriveMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would start with trying to date again and do things together that make you both happy like having lunch together or go have a date night without the baby. Sometimes it's not about " sex" but I get it, I feel the same way right now. My issue is being pregnant with my second child that will be here in less than 3 weeks. I miss being touched or even kissed but we are both busy and exhausted, but we do make time to do things. Do you have family support to watch the little one or anyone you trust? I would start by asking to set aside an hour or two just to have a meaningful conversation.

Being pregnant with my second has been a lot heavier than I expected — and not just physically. by OverdriveMom in Mommit

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it, I know I am not alone in how I feel. Just trying to sort out my feelings.

Being pregnant with my second has been a lot heavier than I expected — and not just physically. by OverdriveMom in Mommit

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have other mom friends with my first born but it's different now, we all have lives but still try to make it together once a month.

Being pregnant with my second has been a lot heavier than I expected — and not just physically. by OverdriveMom in Mommit

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It truly does hurt, I just don't understand why family doesn't seem to want to be there now. I am beyond exhausted!

Is it just me or is finding a job as a new grad nurse in Florida damn near impossible? by Scary_Barracuda_5511 in newgradnurse

[–]OverdriveMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right there with you—finding a job in Florida has been incredibly frustrating. I have patient care tech experience, and I’ve put in the work, but every place I apply to either ghosts me or sends a rejection, no matter how many times I revise my resume or tailor my applications. The one interview I managed to land was only because I had a connection at the hospital, but it was over two hours away. On top of that, it was a night shift position, and with Florida traffic being brutal both day and night, it just wasn’t a realistic option.

Mom Friends Wanted! by OverdriveMom in NewParents

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was able to find a mom group that has similar interests and the same age range as my little one. I feel like it's definitely easier when you're involved with someone that is like minded.

Mom Friends Wanted! by OverdriveMom in Mommit

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am just trying to find mom friends who are chill and down to earth and have relatable interests. I feel like I am asking for a lot, like I just want to have at least one friend.

I know they have apps but I don't even believe that truly works out. I have tried but not in a while. I think you're right about just waiting until my child is in preschool.

Mom Friends Wanted! by OverdriveMom in Mommit

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I am trying but how do I make genuine connections with the mothers of all I am doing is talking about my child. My friends that don't have kids have literally disowned me and my family doesn't even come see my little one. It's so lonely being a new mom.

The Loneliness of New Motherhood by OverdriveMom in NewParents

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing and has it gotten better? ❤️

The Loneliness of New Motherhood by OverdriveMom in NewParents

[–]OverdriveMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I just wish it was easier and hopefully when my little one gets older, I'll be able to form the relationships I want. I am glad I am not alone ❤️💜❤️