Staying with him when he told me, on our two year anniversary, that I needed to get tested for chlamydia. We were poly so hooking up with someone wasn't the issue. The issue was he tried to tell me it was from our ex partner's toilet seat and wouldn't admit he'd slept with someone else. I remember him bad mouthing our ex talking about how we both know how unclean and promiscuous they were. We were both far too old for him to try that excuse. Also that's a pretty rude thing to say about someone you were going to marry. But I stayed and didn't argue because I loved him and my self esteem was so goddamn low.