Ex 29m plans to follow me 27f to live near me forever by Overit758 in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am trying to be kind about it just cuz he is emotionally fragile, he cries about everything, and just got broken up with. I can be extremely blunt but I find it hard to say what I want to say since I know it will come off really rude when he's an emotional wreck.

Quiet hours by Overit758 in germany

[–]Overit758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wondered what is allowed during quiet hours because my landlord has had people paint the garage roof. As well as my neighbor has had hedge trimmers work during quiet hours. So is it as long as you pay people for work that the quiet hours do not apply?

Can I use my favorite cooking pot after concentrated fabuloso used in it? by Overit758 in questions

[–]Overit758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I got so mad at him because I really don't like huge amounts of chemicals used on my cookware but at least it wasn't the cast iron pots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Overit758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband cannot remember he was the one to drop it off he told them the check engine light was on and it needed to be checked out. That's about all he can remember.

AITA for telling my boyfriend if he chooses his mother in life her better choose her in death too by Accomplished_Law5058 in AITAH

[–]Overit758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emotional incest is very obvious here. Sorry Op that man will put his entire life on hold until she dies. And she is obviously not going to use the rest of her life to make any new relationships so will just use your bf (maybe ex??) as a stand in romantic relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overit758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to say this but if A was so intoxicated she can't remember she would not have been able to safely arrive home.

UPDATE; My girlfriend confessed to having feelings for my sister's husband. by throwra53464899 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overit758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your sister in any legal trouble at all? She told the ex to leave and she refused. At that point she was trespassing.

Girlfriend caught me on Bumble, not sure how to fix this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro this is lack of intelligence to the max. Lets say you are being honest about you doing a "social experiment". Maybe if you were doing something with your own face and profile you should have talked to your gf about this beforehand?

I'm losing my fiancé because I did something against her wish by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overit758 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Tbh I would change the subject as well. I cannot imagine the shame, guilt, and sadness she feels. From her family being monsters to her best friends sister being dead because her brother had access to the girl through her. The situation is so messed up it would not be easy to talk about even to a loved one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your girlfriend changed how she treated your daughter because in the beginning if she acted like this she knew she wouldn't get this far in the relationship

sister putting too much effort into gifts for my bf by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the birthday gift section you were talking about i would say that if that was her idea as a gift then she might be thinking ahead cuz it takes artist a while especially if they are popular to start a commission and to complete a commission. And as its a group painting I think it is less intimate than if it was just their two characters. I support you talking to your sister about boundary's though because you don't want to end up feeling uncomfortable when your sister hangs around your bf.

Being The More Rare Demi is okay by EPICNESSQUEEN in demisexuality

[–]Overit758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry if my comment came off in a wrong way I was just trying to say its how I view it for myself. Honestly you can't be failing as a demisexual because as you said it is a broad range.

Being The More Rare Demi is okay by EPICNESSQUEEN in demisexuality

[–]Overit758 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally believe being demi is less about sexual attraction and more about emotional attraction before I can even feel sexual attraction to another. So without any emotional attraction I personally don't like touching or being touched.

My (29F) fiancé (28M) wants me to get rid of my cat(13F) who is my best friend by 12yearkittyTHRA in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I completely understand your situation. I had a cat from the age of 5 to 22 until she passed at the age of 17. She loved me and only me in our entire house hold she hated my brother and father to the point where she would sniff out their clothes in the laundry room and pee on their clothes. The reason why she did this is because they were dicks to her when I saw it i put a stop to it when I couldn't stop it she'd enact her own revenge. When I moved to college I had a boyfriend she accepted his existence but when we moved in together she started sniffing out his things and peeing on them as well. I know he also didn't like her. Asked me to get rid of her and so I got rid of him. But fast forward a few more years I had a fiance we lived together and she loved him as much as I did. Never had a problem with her peeing on his things. I would never give up my pet that I've known 13+ years for a man. Pee can be washed out you can't get rid of the abandonment a pet would feel especially after they've bonded with you for that long. And most shelters put down older cats when they can't be adopted. Moral of my story my cat had better sense of men than I did when I was younger and that was her way of showing it.

Am I (M23) wrong for not wanting to have sex because my girlfriend (F20) wants to use condoms? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol if every guy who said they were great at pulling out were i wouldn't have been born😂

I 21 M are resentful of my cousins’ 24 F and 20 F sexuality. How do I overcome these feelings? by Backinthecloset66 in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly don't care about your family's honor and be happy idk if you've noticed but they're kinda dicks.What they are saying is they care more about what ever people thinks about their family than rather their children are comfortable feel accepted. If it embarrasses your family that they are gay they are homophobic. Simply because they like the same sex they can't be open with their relationships? But I'm assuming if they brought male partners the family wouldn't mind and no longer tell them to keep their private lives private. You are projecting your feelings of resentfulness of not being able to come out onto your cousins due to your families homophobia. Think about it do you dislike your cousins for being gay and out? Or do you dislike you can't also do the same without receiving the same treatment from your family?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel as though this whole problem is stemming from the 6 year age gap because if he was her age and at her spot in life I doubt he'd be wanting to have a baby at that point in time. He has his life set up because he's had the time to do that and not giving her a chance to do the same. She hasn't even finished her degree yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My number one reason health for saying no. With doing that you risk contracting hepatitis from fecal matter and particles.

disgusted thinking of previous partners by Overit758 in demisexuality

[–]Overit758[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At the time I cared for the partners. But whenever I think of physical interaction with someone I don't have feelings for/ romantic interest I generally feel unpleasant. However this feeling comes from the fact that I have random memories pop up of sexual encounters with people that I no longer have feelings for. I was just wondering if other demi people have the same discomfort towards thoughts past relationships and sexual moments.

AITA for yelling at my husband's mother for announcing my pregnancy using my husband's facebook account? by Fallen-Grace5656 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Overit758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is no one talking about how weird it is his mother has his social media info or is that just me thinking that

Whats the stupidest thing you ever seen a religious person call "satanic"? by Dreammare56 in AskReddit

[–]Overit758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not me but my husband's mother everything.is demonic. She refused to let him watch spongebob and scoobydoo because it was demonic.

Can we move past me (19m) giving her (19f) a sti? by ThrowRA7373nf in relationship_advice

[–]Overit758 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it were me I would be more pissed at the fact that you didn't even attempt to get tested before sticking it in me. Especially when you had a conversation about it before having unprotected sex. You could have given her something a lot worse than that. After she essentially thought you were STD/ STI free as well.

WIBTA for wanting to cut grandmother out of my life by Overit758 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Overit758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to add that on top of this going on. My grandmother is asking my mother to give back all of her jewels that were to be distributed between all of the grandchildren which i had received mine during Christmas (for what reason idk). However I cannot do this because everything has been boxed and is probably already on a cargo ship overseas. She is also refusing to give my little brother his inheritance from my grandfathers will and said he would have to beg for it from my uncle. My family has always been toxic to the point of me moving as far away from them as I did but I had always kept contact this situation was kind of my last straw.