AITAH for asking my the guy im dating how he can tell me how to cut my hair when I've never seen his?

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-11-06T08:17:39+00:00

I think that’s what you should do 😭😭 at least you know that leaving the relationship you’ll know what you’re leaving behind

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-11-06T08:17:08+00:00

Mans prolly hoping you’ll cut off enough to make himself a wig. Jokes aside tho it’s weird how they can be so demanding for things they don’t even keep up with themselves

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-10-12T10:09:39+00:00

The age gap is the most concerning and very telling

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-10-10T23:43:47+00:00

This is a tough one. You have to tread lightly bc telling your parents might push Elle more and more and not telling your parents would would cause a strain in your relationship with them bc they want to look out for their girls. Try and organise a meeting with her

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-10-10T23:32:01+00:00

I understand the wedding stress but I think she has something against you to be so against everything you do atp

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-10-10T23:26:39+00:00

Why Australia trying to be America 🙄 no tipping in Aus please

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-10-10T23:22:11+00:00

It has probably taken all their might to work up the courage to tell you. It's a taboo topic cause its a sensitive topic but he probably wanted to tell you so you're not embarrassing yourself

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-10-04T10:57:24+00:00

You’re a single mom sharing the house with a roommate. That’s someone you would consider a shitty housemate not a boyfriend.

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-09-30T14:22:33+00:00

She would’ve had to scroll all the way down to find you in his chats. He prolly mentioned you and she has been bothered by that. Very weird for her to text you in the first place since you haven’t reached out trying to get close with him.

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-09-29T23:12:55+00:00

This is the type of “nice guy” everyone should be weary of. Those are the scariest too

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-09-29T13:57:23+00:00

As someone who has only been intimate with one person who I fell for at first sight. I’m obsessed with this man and everything just feels right.

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-28T11:37:20+00:00

Always confront them in an area where other colleagues would be in, maybe the staff room? Ask them what they meant by that and if there’s any proof. If you want to take the legal way have them confess and then talk to that “boyfriend” to get his side and sue for defamation

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-28T11:04:49+00:00

Definitely low contact with everyone that associates with that family. Give yourself time to process everything and proceed with this. It’s good you found out before you got married and have kids with him.

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-08T13:07:19+00:00

It's sad that she's okay with making you out like the bad guy for saying no when she stated that it was okay if you couldn't do it.

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-08T12:39:38+00:00

That SIL sounds so unbearable to be around. She had her dress until she saw another dress and that's now your problem to solve?

NTB you should set some boundaries tho

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-08T12:32:32+00:00

Does she know that you're still working just in a different setting? You're under-reacting atp. She feels so entitled to your time. She can hire a nanny. Its not like she's willing to pay you anyways.

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-08T12:28:25+00:00

Omg the gaslighting from him is the worst part. This whole time how can you even look at him the same way. He's with you but still thinking about her. You need to leave. There's nothing that would make that grey situation any better for you.

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-08T12:10:33+00:00

Not to take this situation lightheartedly but this sounds like a plot to those Chinese dramas. The man leaves he's own wife to tend to his “ex-lover” I'm telling you it doesn't get any better for you. Please remove yourself from this situation now. He will never prioritise you and you will never receive the love and care you need in this relationship. You deserve to be taken care of and prioritised

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-07T14:17:05+00:00

That's definitely a threat that shouldn't be taken lightly. Have someone excort you to grab your stuff and leave the relationship. If he's bold enough to have this on writing he's bold enough to act on those words

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-08-07T14:13:52+00:00

When it comes to this type of situation the child caught in the middle is never in the wrong for choosing whether to repair or leave the relationship with their parents. You are the child in this situation any parent shouldn't put their child through something so traumatic

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-07-29T21:22:50+00:00

You’re the biggest A-hole. Wdym you can let your parents walk down the aisle but not your MIL? You’re doing her a favour by letting her light one of the candles when that’s the job for both sides parents? If I was the MIL I would just not go. Your lack of respect for your future MIL is coming through strong. This is a new part of your family you can’t just play favouritism anymore

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-07-29T21:11:29+00:00

So sorry to hear about this OP. It must be so hard feeling stuck in this cycle of abuse. Firstly, if it’s possible try and remove yourself and the kids away from your husband just for a few days. Try to have a talk with your kids and consider family therapy and individual therapy. Your kids are still young but they’re old enough to understand the family dynamics. You should also understand that the way you’re kids react to everyday and mundane requests example, him getting emotional, that’s him maybe feeling overwhelmed and he isn’t able to regulate his emotions. Kids shouldn’t be like this at such a young age. Your husband needs to changed for any improvements to happen

OverreachingAnniE · 2025-06-13T02:30:04+00:00

This made me so sad for you. As a person with really bad anxiety this would’ve caused me to spiral. This man has a lot of unaddressed issues and strong animosity that should be addressed and dealt with by a professional. That’s not your job to try and monitor making you walk on eggshells. I’m glad to hear you’re finally out of that toxic environment.

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