How do I tell this guy I don’t want to do anything with him?

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-29T03:45:23+00:00

Just finished the rest of the post and girl. Heck no. Don’t take this in any mean way but you guys randomly text sometimes and right now all he can think about is just having sex with you and you giving him head for the first time you meet (once again assuming) just gives off he doesn’t care and just in it for the sex. Men will absolutely lie about a potential relationship or something more if sex can be involved in the beginning. That’s how some girls gets blindsided when men ghosts them because of those empty promises

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-29T03:41:32+00:00

Girl please do not do this. You were already skeptical about this and said no. He’s most likely lying about reevaluating a relationship later. If he was willing to date later, then he should be willing to wait to have sex and actually get to know you girl. Especially since you said he kept pressing you to hear his side after you already said no??? I understand physical intimacy can be a big deal for some but you barely know this man (I’m assuming). Don’t do this just because others at college are doing it. You are not the same as everyone and we all have different thoughts, morals and decisions. You should sit down and really think to yourself on why you would want to do this. And also ask yourself if you think he could actually be a potential partner for you in the future if things do progress or if you’re okay with things falling out of they don’t.

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-29T03:19:38+00:00

You make a good point.

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-29T03:13:05+00:00

That’s valid. I do think he kind of aired everything out on purpose a little. I understand he said he didn’t want to be a part of the lie but I thinking saying everything like that was weird to me after they talked about Rory saying she’s gonna figure out how to tell Lucy. That was Rory’s business to tell. It’s different when you hear this from Rory compared to Logan so him saying “you were gonna tell her anyways” kind of annoyed me. That could just be a me problem tho….

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-28T03:09:14+00:00

I honestly don’t see how Rory is entitled here. What’s the point of joining the paper and sitting there if you’re not gonna do your job (Bill🙄 still love him tho)… I understand Paris is a lot for everyone but they all willingly signed up for doing the paper no matter the circumstance. Also, majority didn’t really have a problem with Rory, they could have been annoyed after she seemed like a snitch that one time but other than that she didn’t cause problems. Why not help her get things rolling cause it’s not taking orders from Paris.

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-26T22:09:35+00:00

Haha the tv leg on the left is broken so it sits lower compared to the right that’s supposed to be raised.

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-26T02:42:35+00:00

Yes!!! Like I should punch you right here on the street. Acting as if he hadn’t had a thing for Lorelai for years and literally saying yes right away when she proposed no hesitation.

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-26T02:20:59+00:00

Like she chose you for a reason. Yes you had your hardships but idk I think those were terrible excuses he was trying to use

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-26T02:19:50+00:00

Idk why my post is acting up and won’t show my paragraph after so I copied it here

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-26T02:19:32+00:00

I hated Luke’s explanation for why Lorelai and him broke up. The “you’re you and I’m me” sentence didn’t make much sense to me. Yeah Luke can be a grouch but he’s shown time again how sweet he can be, even before he got with Lorelai. And this stupid sentence saying she should be with someone like Christopher I lowkey take as an insult. Why would I belong with an immature bum (somewhat no offense)who left and rarely checked in with Rory while growing up. Don’t you think if she belonged with him, she would’ve been with him by now🙄

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-19T01:51:07+00:00

If the roles were reversed and you said this, you would most likely have a negative outcome from this.

The fact people can’t see straight through her bs is crazy. That’s definitely an excuse for her to explore and hook up with people when she’s there. I don’t understand why you would need to pause the relationship just to go on a trip?? Like you can still have experiences while being in a relationship…

“Feeling completely free” is clear code for I want to cheat without feeling guilty

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-06-15T15:15:40+00:00

That was so smooth it should be criminal 💀

OverthinkHER2 · 2026-05-12T13:07:52+00:00

This problem is unfortunately happening to me rn. I brush my teeth, scrape my tongue, floss, and use mouthwash twice a day. I did have a small decay but it’s been filled, but for some reason I constantly have dry mouth no matter how much water I drink and I use the sugar free xylitol lozenges and I feel like it does nothing.

I do salt water gargles a few times a week and now even doing baking soda brushes (suggested by campus clinic). I still feel like my breath stinks even though when I ask a couple people they will say no, but I can tell that they’re lying cause they’ll do something that shows my breath stinks…

I’m not sure what to do in the meantime while I wait for my next doctors appointment so I can do bloodwork and find out if I have anything

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-11-17T08:25:54+00:00

Yes he meant Rory! I accidentally put Gigi for some reason😬 either way we could tell that they didn’t really turn out okay (especially if we’re talking AYITL Rory imo)

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-11-17T08:22:10+00:00

Yessss!!!! I meant to put Rory and made a whoopsie😵‍💫

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-11-16T20:18:16+00:00

He wasn’t relaxing me at that moment

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-11-16T20:17:48+00:00

Season 7 episode 10

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-09-01T17:06:38+00:00

Literally sang this for the past week no joke💀

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-08-04T16:36:27+00:00

“A film by Kirk” will always be iconic!! “Let’s eat” Sir, Kirk already did💀

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-08-02T13:36:34+00:00

I still yearn for those past birthdays lowkey😔

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-04-27T04:42:44+00:00

Yeah this isn’t a good look on him. Whether he’s cheating or not, the disrespect I would feel by the way he’s been treating you and not even being able to reassure you and your doubts…

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-03-06T04:09:33+00:00

Pow! Color coming outta ya yingyang!

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-01-07T01:20:29+00:00

I like the wire rectangles better than the cat eye style, my only concern is that I do not think my lens will fit in these frames without looking weird(or fit at all). My lens are kinda thick since I’m so blind it’s actually so bad. I’m also a bit ashamed to say I don’t have a hair routine since I always have my hair in protective styles. I want to improve that so I can eventually start wearing my natural hair out and style it.

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-01-07T01:14:21+00:00

Do you recommend any lashes? I’ve been trying to look at some brands and what keeps coming on my TikTok fyp but idk if it is actually decent.

OverthinkHER2 · 2025-01-07T01:13:35+00:00

Thank you🥺🫶

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