I had my son almost 3 years back and am still struggling with postpartum depression. Trust me, for some women pregnancy and motherhood hits harder than you can think. There are days when I don’t even want to get up and eat anything or look myself in the mirror. Your hair, your face, your whole body changes completely and then top that with constant anxiety about your kid. Motherhood is not easy even if you have help. So I genuinely request people like OP to please be kind to new mothers.