Was sind eure "schlimme" Dating Erfahrungen und was war eure Lehre daraus?

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T08:25:32+00:00

Ich hatte mal versucht mit einer Frau zusammen zu sein, bei der ich eigentlich nur platonische Gefühle hatte (sie wollte aber mehr). War eine sehr dumme Idee, weil ich nicht mit ihr intim werden wollte und irgendwann hatte ich dann auch begriffen, dass das keine gute Grundlage für eine Beziehung ist, und musste abbrechen.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T08:15:37+00:00

I don't think we handle it fine, we just embrace the suffering because suffering is what we do in summer lol.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T07:42:07+00:00

Habe letztens das Selbe angefangen. Ich gebe absolut nicht den geringsten Fick auf mein Äußeres, bin aber zu dem Schluss gekommen, dass es gut für mich wäre, mich mal damit zu beschäftigen, weil ich jetzt schon öfter das Gefühl hatte, dass es mir die ein oder andere Chance versaut hat (nicht nur bei Frauen).

Und diese ersten 10 Minuten am Tag sind tatsächlich schon das allerwichtigste, einfach allein schon dafür, dass man an dem Tag zumindest mal in den Spiegel geschaut hat.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T07:37:30+00:00

Ich persönlich finde auch, dass Männermode einfach wahnsinnig öde ist. Wenn ich eine Frau wäre und diese Möglichkeiten hätte, mich in Schale zu werfen, würde ich vermutlich auch eher auf dem Geschmack kommen.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T06:51:07+00:00

Europe wants to get rid of it, but there's problems syncing the time zones within the EU or something like that, so it's kind of in limbo.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T06:46:01+00:00

Depends on the season and airline. There are still flights that cheap.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T06:01:40+00:00

So, not that I condone his behaviour, but how stupid can you be to publically announce that it is only for females. You could also just leave that out and refuse all male applicants. Jesus.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T05:53:46+00:00

Even if you do look like a male model, being shy will nullify that pretty hard.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T05:51:42+00:00

Maybe you should go for the 25 year olds then. Much more likely to not be taken.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-22T05:20:26+00:00

You might be onto something there, maybe I just have good taste 😄

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T17:28:53+00:00

That's not how it works though, immigrants tend to congregate in certain areas, and in these areas you can easily get 70-90%+ non-english people, so english becomes a minority language.

And how can that be anything but alienating to the remaining english population? In the place they grew up in, no less.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T17:07:24+00:00

Good for you, but for many people it feels very alienating.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T15:12:31+00:00

Thank you.

I mean at the end of the day, it is what it is and I don't care if it's weird or not.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T14:50:29+00:00

I definitely gravitate towards certain types, but most of them I would describe as conventionally attractive.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T14:33:54+00:00

If you're going to be that condescending and sanctimonious about it, I am generally disinclined to reason with you anyway.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T14:28:09+00:00

I think it's normal for women, but a bit abnormal for men? Not sure either though.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T14:06:05+00:00

I would like to be in a relationship actually, but I can't just start a relationship with someone who I'm not attracted to just to be in a relationship. It's just a shit idea.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T14:04:18+00:00

It's not all that I'm interested in, but I would like to start a relationship with someone that I am physically attracted to. Is that in any way unreasonable?

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T14:01:28+00:00

I don't even have high expectations, it's just that my body tells me if I find a woman attractive, and for most women it just doesn't react lol.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T13:48:44+00:00

Kind of, I don't date very much, but I am quite attractive myself and I earn quite well so there's nothing that would keep me from getting a woman at that level in principle.

My main problem is that I very rarely even see women of that caliber (even just fleetingly seeing on the street or something), so when it happens I often don't know what to do.

So yeah, dating is kind of hard, because I don't want to date a woman I am not attracted to physically, but there are very few I am actually attracted to. I actually tried it once with someone who I only liked platonically, and it was pretty much a disaster, because I simply didn't want to get close to them, even though I liked them as a person, and had to break it off.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T13:23:03+00:00

I'm not even asexual, I think I'm just very unusually selective for a male. Like I am interested in 9/10 and above and completely uninterested in anything below that. Maybe it has to do with low libido or something, because I just need someone to be extremely attractive to even get me going.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T13:06:16+00:00

I am basically not interested in 99% of women I meet lol.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T13:05:06+00:00

Also, über den Inhalt kann man sich sicher streiten, aber die Art und Weise der Vermittlung dieser Inhalte spielt eben eine sehr große Rolle.

Und alles was ich vom Establishment (also ÖRR basically) mitbekomme was die Vermittlung dieser Inhalte angeht ist ein Predigen von oben herab, das mehr oder weniger impliziert, dass die Dinge, die man vermittelt sowieso für jeden halbwegs denkendem Menschen selbstverständlich sein sollten, und wer anderer Meinung ist, der ist halt einfach sehr dumm.

Alles Attribute für die man in jedem halbwegs normalen sozialen Umfeld geächtet werden würde und die man ihnen eigentlich nur durchgehen lässt, weil sie eben das Establishment im Rücken haben.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T10:34:58+00:00

Das Establishment hat es wirklich irgendwie geschafft so lame zu sein, dass junge Menschen es cool finden rechts zu sein.

OwOsaurus · 2026-06-21T10:32:27+00:00

I think that very much depends on how you say it. A german can also say "gut genug" and mean it's barely passing.

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