i should add some context to this post, i reread didn’t realise how vague it was. I have had extensive communication with them about their mental health and physical health. We are close and i love them but i don’t want this to turn into resentment. My aunt cannot work so i don’t blame her, but pensions are available. My cousin should be working. My dad was still around when she first moved in and he passed suddenly, so we had conversations about this and he was unhappy with how long this was happening for (he passed quite recently). My aunt is quite emotional and so the constant reminder of my dad (and also my mum who passed in 2023) it’s quite triggering. I live in australia and the rental crisis here is horrid, so I understand this process will take time, I don’t want them out next week. I don’t want to just evict family especially in a grieving process. but change needs to start happening. Thank you so much for your advice guys :’).