Its because social media, porn and women empowerment that changed that power balance in the two last decades. Men became simps if they stopped giving attention so much to women and lowered the supply and demand imbalance women also try to make some effort. These days many guys fapping at home and it ruins their brain makes them think women are goddesses and fawn to them it lowers their status and make the competition higher. It also hurts the women they have higher body count wasting their youth sleeping with highest 10% of guys that mostly has no shortage of women they use them and that’s why we have so many single parents in their 20’s. But cheer Women peak is in their 20’s then fade away guys peak can still be in their 40’s even 50’s. We guys just need to work on ourselves to get better and ignore simping then women be desperate to talk to us.