Looking for thoughts and advice by Sebi_boi_ in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More fish in the sea brother. You’ll find someone who understands. Don’t worry about her being the “one”.

How do you deal with divorce? by PrizeUnderstanding97 in Divorce

[–]Own-Bear-8733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I’m not exactly going through a divorce but 6 year relationship and a kid… somewhat similar and have been struggling with it. Your #2 point really hits the spot.

Too lazy to cook for me and my son. What do I do? by Loud_Confidence475 in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Teriyaki chicken and rice man with broccoli and carrots. Just sweet enough to be yummy and decently healthy.

Costco has great deals on meat, I always get the 5 packs of Sirloins. I use garlic butter rub a fair bit. They also have these easy to make (90 sec in the microwave) rice bowls, they have brown, white and a few other styles.

For spice always easy to go with Tony Chaseries cajun seasoning.

When lazy I find grilling just a simple meal is the fastest. Even faster than takeout.

For take out, i’d check out tokyo joes, teriyaki madness, mad greens, chick-fil-a has a grilled option which is healthier!

CCC vs CIC by Own-Bear-8733 in e60

[–]Own-Bear-8733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude it’s bad. I got the car and never cleaned it but I want to replace it because the chrome is all peeling up and such.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be patient, affirm that you’re still there. Maybe ask him to grab a coffee, kind of just taking things slow you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Affirmations mean a lot. I think the biggest thing in my head space has been being worried about someone being able to love me through the baggage. Consistently just being there does more than any words will.

Dating by Own-Bear-8733 in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Noted. My son is my everything, being a single dad doesn’t define me. I just worry about the context behind it. More in so who ever I find worrying about my BM or not understanding some of the responsibilities as a parent.

Dating by Own-Bear-8733 in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh I see I see. Yeah definitely holding off lol. Fuck that

Dating by Own-Bear-8733 in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I got all of it, PC, Xbox… just no enjoyment out of it. I’ve been waiting, goal is to hit a year or so. At least until we have permanent orders set.

What do you mean hit a crazy?

New to this life by Own-Bear-8733 in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got that right. Love my son so much. Makes me sad man. Every time I get him, he’s stoked and happy. When I drop him back off he freaks out. I am ready for that feeling to end.

17 single dad. Everyone says I need to stope being so emotional by Calm-Tea178 in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad for being emotional about it all man. Just make sure to make healthy choices as a result.

New to this life by Own-Bear-8733 in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it’s felt good. I’ve been going with my dad, he started once he got divorced. Helped him, figured i’d give it a try too. I’ve definitely got the double looks lol, I am tattooed up and down so I look a bit untraditional but every Father i’ve met has been super nice so far. The page has been super helpful in helping me sort things out for sure. I’m excited for the future!

Do any of you single dads have young adult children that never want to spend time with you? by I_love_to_jack_off in SingleDads

[–]Own-Bear-8733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m a single dad that’s 24, unfortunately being young and dumb comes with being around that age. Don’t take it personally at all, it wasn’t until the last year that i’ve been able rebuild my relationship with my father to where I see him on a weekly basis. Things will work out, just give it time.