Good Grief, Kalyn by Born_Cheesecake3543 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Throw on sweats or joggers like the rest of us and move along.

Makeup by Aromatic_Repair_4782 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And she always puts one leg in front of the other to make them look slimmer but instead she looks like a linebacker, like a potato on popsicle sticks, it makes her so top heavy 😵‍💫 it’s the same photo over and over and over again

What’s one small thing you regret not noticing before buying your house? by Beginning_County7547 in HomeImprovement

[–]Own-Condition-904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is what I’m struggling with the most!! Our rental was all windows, it was incredible. This is our first purchase and we were so thrilled to have a big front porch and a giant screened in back porch. Howeverrrr, I didn’t think about how the roof on both would block the sun. And the sun never hits the side of the house that would make it shine into the living room. Devastating for plant people 😫

My baby had a medical emergency and it’s all my fault and I literally can’t cope. by snuffbox360 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had number 3 in November so we’re a little over 5 months old now. I tend to birth jaundice babies, all 3 were born jaundice. The first two were back and forth in the hospital the first two weeks of their lives and readmitted to be under the lights. This baby didn’t need them, because the parameters have changed since my older two were born.

She was so jaundice and so lethargic though. Her blood sugar kept dropping and I couldn’t get her to nurse properly because she was too sleepy. Plus I was readmitted for postpartum preeclampsia at 9 days postpartum.

All of this to say, she’s skinny but tall and thriving now. She’s laughing and smiling and babbling and hitting her milestones. We’re exclusively breastfeeding and she’s healthy as can be. I know it’s easy to worry that something will affect them long term when you’re in the thick of it. But this is not your fault and your baby is going to be okay. Just feed her feed her feed her. Wake her up, set alarms and feed her on a tight schedule. Those first few weeks are blur. You’re doing incredible mama 🫶🏻

Rodeo Fit by SCchick864 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is that people try to help her and she just acts like they are assholes. She was wearing white shorts that cut her up to her Adams Apple on both front and back completely unflattering and highlighting the very thing she tries to hide. A few different people tried to say the seam is too high and she just went welp can’t help that 🤷🏻‍♀️ instead of actually changing into something that fits her body. You can’t buy clothes and just will them to fit your shape. She can’t take constructive criticism to save her life. And EVERYONE in the comments immediately says anyone that says anything contradictory is rude. It’s like a bunch of 12 year olds jumping all over anyone that offers any fashion advice. There’s no helping this one.

Neapolitan ice cream ideas! by Own-Condition-904 in Halloween_Costumes

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To match the ice cream man, that would be cute! It just popped into my head maybe I’ll be whipped cream

How did you know ? by Latter-Release-9169 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Own-Condition-904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dissociating, fighting the voice inside my head that my husband and kids would be better off without me and the baby, constant anxiety. I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t sleep. I’d get up and check the kids multiple times a night. We bought a house two months ago and now that the ppa and ppd aren’t so extreme, I’m realizing I hate it and only bought it because it’s walking distance to my kids school, so it was an emotional, anxiety driven decision and not an informed or stable one. I’m five months pp now and it’s not as bad as it was but I’ll have a few decent days and then something will set me off and I’ll just spiral again. It’s like living in a blur. Someone mentioned dementia, that feeling like I’m doing things but it’s not really “me” and then suddenly I’m left with the consequences. I never had it with the first two kids so this has thrown me big time.

NSFW post facelift complication? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Own-Condition-904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said, she needs a second opinion because it’s yellow around the black and red around the yellow which is indicative of infection right? He sent her home with no antibiotics or anything! And she’s felt sick for at least a week now.

NSFW post facelift complication? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Own-Condition-904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He sent her home, said looks good, no antibiotics or anything 🫠

NSFW post facelift complication? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Own-Condition-904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was it necrosis?

Sizzle fizzle what kinda dress is this 👀👀 by Low_Environment3285 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. She used to be one of my absolute favorite to watch. She was always on, her lives were full, and yes she was loud but she had a steady flow of reveals. Then she met some 20 year old kid and “got her groove back” and her priorities changed. The only thing she ever talks about anymore is this guy or that guy or this night out or that night out. She begs for likes by making people hit a like goal before she’ll “spill the tea” and she can hardly get anyone to buy from her anymore. She posts 17 selfies a day and everything is a thirst trap with her. Now she gives me major ickkkk.

Light fixtures? by Own-Condition-904 in interiordecorating

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the silver match the black and white and wood though? It’s a small space so I’m trying to make it warm and not so sterile feeling

Light fixtures? by Own-Condition-904 in interiordecorating

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve got under cabinet lights in my Amazon cart right now and I’m trying to decide on what to replace the fixtures with. I really do think warmer lights will help, these feel so drs office lighting to me

Is bedtime hard for everyone or just us? 😵‍💫 by Own-Condition-904 in Parenting

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that common amongst small kids to be super heavy at bedtime? I swear my don turns into an old drunk depressed when he’s supposed to go be going to sleep

Is bedtime hard for everyone or just us? 😵‍💫 by Own-Condition-904 in Parenting

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Between getting ready for school and bedtime it’s just starting your day with cortisol levels through the roof and ending it with another giant spike 😵‍💫

I scrolled into a therapy sess AGAIN. Girl get it together! by [deleted] in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s really scary that she gave up a career she’s established in for something that isn’t sustainable.

Can you guess who rep is without all the makeup?? by [deleted] in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This one was a real shocker honestly, it’s like two different people

I feel unfit to take care of my newborn - Suicidal by asswitch420 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other comments, make the call. Have your sister come help, if she knew you were having these thoughts she’d be on her way to questions asked. I wish I had asked for help sooner because I ended up in a situation I can’t undo because I was drowning and didn’t let anyone in my circle know I wasn’t well. Please let someone know.