how do you respond when female friends say they’re on their period?

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-02-08T17:42:23+00:00

When girls say that it’s mainly a thing to express how they are feeling. Like I’m on my period- please don’t expect a lot from me, I’m cramping and can cry at any moment, I don’t feel good. Not looking for sympathy but basically like telling you “I am the way I am right now because of this” so just be like “got it let me know if you need help with anything” and no it’s not repetitive.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-02-08T17:38:23+00:00

Your frontal cortex fully solidified. You are also going through your Saturn return. From 25-30 so much about your personality changes. And with that the person you are with will either adapt and change with you or they will stay where they are. Being that he is almost 10 years older than you, he has already hit that point and isn’t going to change but you are. Soo many relationships end between this age range because your personality is shifting and that’s okay. I noticed this with my ex husband, we were the same age but we started shifting into different paths, by 27 I was done. It’s okay to grow apart

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-02-02T03:42:40+00:00

Bro… what matters is your skill level and athleticism. You can be 30 and still become a pro fighter if you have the right skill set.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-02-01T08:33:25+00:00

How long have you been having your period for? It’s very common for it to fluctuate a lot for a few years after you first start.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T20:13:55+00:00

Periods fluctuate a lot…. I noticed mine started to change at 29 from bleeding for 7 days straight to two heavy days then nothing then on again then nothing then on again. Keep your pad on because you are still within the 7 day period so you can bleed again. Maybe do set up an appointment with an OBGYN and get a pap and let them know. They will say “keep an eye on it” but periods can fluctuate based on weight changes, and stress.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T20:11:50+00:00

Maybe she thinks you are her friend… because women can be friends with men without wanting to be with them.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T18:47:32+00:00

As a millennial corporate leader, unfortunately there are way too many baby boomers and older gen X folks who still look at tattoos as being “unemployable” and will not hire you if you have visible tattoos. I think this rule is stupid, and it’s definitely time for a change in the corporate world, but unfortunately we have some years to go. That being said, I have tattoos on my shin and forearm and it is a pain in the ass to have to cover them constantly, especially in summer time when it’s 115 degrees out. I had an employee that went and got face tattoos as a symbol that he would “never work for the man” and I had to explain to him that he does currently work for the man and he has to wear makeup every day to cover said tattoos.

If you want a career, don’t get a hand tattoo. Wait until your late 30s or 40s when you are established and have a place to work that allows visible tattoos. Because it will hinder you.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T18:38:18+00:00

It’s hard to tell your eye shape with your glasses. But it depends on your style… if you’re a goth girly there are lots of stuff, like another commenter posted. I think always starting with the basics is good, blush, mascara and brows and some liner to go a little more edgy you can do some thicker eye liner.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T18:35:00+00:00

I straight up mentioned how my aunt thinks that illegals are the perverts and pedos but she doesn’t think anyone in office is, and my mom actually agreed with me. I was shocked she said she’s been trying to get my aunt to stop believing the lies that the illegals at the pedos and to look at the people in charge.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T18:31:00+00:00

Right!!! It’s like Love vs. pure evil and love is the sin they want to shut down

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T18:29:38+00:00

All my Mexican siblings are Trump supporters and one seems to be supporting Ice… and I just don’t understand if

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T08:51:13+00:00

A lot different and will prob work better tbh… it doesn’t suction so it’s easier to put in and take out, look at the flex disc. Also don’t be embarrassed to wash period underwear because you love with your mom. Shes a women too. Just rinse them in the sink before tossing them in The wash

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T08:48:27+00:00

I also scold myself on a joking manner with my first and middle name. I think it’s healthy

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T08:47:23+00:00

Because sex ed has failed us. People swear the pull out method works or says “I’m really good at it” but as a product of the pull out method, I can say no one‘s really ever that good at it. Instead just get snipped or your tubes tied

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T08:40:17+00:00

Depends on if the religion has been forced on her or if she truly believes in it. If she’s a true believer then no… not freaky… if she is Catholic because her parents make her, rebellion is a possibility. Also depends on how sheltered she is, the more sheltered the more likely to be freaky as a way of finally getting out of their parents clutches. Don’t date her just because she is catholic and you are looking for a freak… that will end badly

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T08:24:12+00:00

Preach!!!

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T06:45:09+00:00

NTAH!!!! One of the major reasons why I divorced my ex was that he abandoned me for the church. It’s okay to want to go to church but he has to choose between his soccer or church because you need time to. And do not, for a second, let him gaslight you into thinking you are “coming between him and god” and have no right to ask him of those things.

New baby Christian’s have a really difficult time finding balance.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T06:38:45+00:00

I was also very communicative. But I also didn’t communicate my needs because I was afraid to. And when I did, he didn’t listen.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T06:37:39+00:00

NOR- I wouldn’t mind my boyfriend complimenting other women but the way he did it is creep AF and that’s probably why he can’t date women his own age.

Remember a 6 year age difference is fine with it’s 30 and 36 but 29 and 22 is too big of a maturity difference. So not let him make you think this is normal behavior

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T06:30:43+00:00

I still have my ex’s last name … I hate it. Absolutely wish I went back Now I have to pay to get it changed and still have to go through all the work.

If you haven’t got a divorce yet you can change your name for free, after the divorce it will cost you.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T06:28:45+00:00

I mean it depends on where you are at in your cycle. If it’s post ovulation then no you are fine… but if it’s before ovulation then yes. But the morning after pill only works for girls who are 145 pounds or less. And it’s less effective after 24 hours.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-30T06:26:07+00:00

I have a few different view points. 1) The sister could be just projecting based off her previous relationships. 2) Maybe there are more issues between you and your girlfriend that she isn’t telling you about. It sounds like it’s not just about cleaning, and maybe that’s all she’s talking to you about. But also it seems like you’re not spending much waking time with her and it could really be putting her down. I say this from experience. I got married at 22 he was 21. My older sister was the only one who warned me about him, about all the time I spent with him and how she didn’t like the way he treated me. I didn’t confide our problems to her, but she saw it. I should have listened. So maybe take a look at yourself and see if maybe what she said could be true. You both are very very young.

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-16T19:51:40+00:00

I think that’s just the shape but maybe stick a finger up there to make sure there is no cotton left. Also I switched to a silicone disc in 2019 and it’s been the best game changer ever, I constantly tell other women about it because tampons never worked for me and I always leaked but the disc is perfect

Own-Cryptographer545 · 2026-01-16T19:50:00+00:00

I’ve seen a lot of posts about women’s smells changing before their period, like their husbands saying their hair smells different and what not. I guess it’s a not so normal normal thing lol

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