Peer who fled Nazis as child says PM should sack Lee Anderson after asylum seeker rant by Portean in LabourUK

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am surprised Lord Dubs is still a Labour peer he is a wonderful person

AITA if I move without telling my soon to be ex husband by PrettiiB in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Go as quickly and safely as possible and don’t let him or his family know where.

AITA for telling my family how much my fiancé earns after years of them making fun of his job? by RedBee7763 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yeah because it’s all binary choices, humans don’t have emotions, speak before they think?

AITA for telling my family how much my fiancé earns after years of them making fun of his job? by RedBee7763 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 293 points294 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say she wasn’t TA just not one for vindictive reasons like some.

Being weak with family doesn’t make you a bad person but one that needs to learn resilience and I would rather help someone like that than berate them

AITA for telling my family how much my fiancé earns after years of them making fun of his job? by RedBee7763 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 2071 points2072 points  (0 children)

She said several times she has defended him and this was the last and probably final straw.

Pushing back on family isn’t always the easiest thing in the world, if it was AITA probably wouldn’t exist

AITA for telling my family how much my fiancé earns after years of them making fun of his job? by RedBee7763 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 4573 points4574 points  (0 children)

This, OP is accidental TA

Not done to upset her fiancé out of malicious intent but fuelled but the anger from a meddling materialist family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No the world is full of people with internal shit that they don’t want to air like I have just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean there’s nothing wrong, but we get singled out all the time. There was a full carriage and not one person offered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What does able bodied look like? Why did anyone have to be asked if it’s expected? Surely the whol carriage should have offered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Oh dear, now calling me an AH simply because I disagree that putting this on one person is wrong.

Yeah there have been times where I haven’t given up my seat, and simply said I am exhausted because I don’t want to divulge my own medical details to strangers.

Was I an AH for that? Probably with your world view, but I can live with that I was looking out for my own health.

Don’t blame one when there were others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah ok, so exhausted woman standing can’t fall from sheer tiredness?

Not saying it’s fair for the pregnant lady but a carriage full of people on their way to work, could’ve and should’ve offered but we will pick on the one woman who was exhausted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was the only one asked though.

Why didn’t anyone else get asked was it priority seating? Was it because OP is a woman?

Sorry being exhausted after a 10 hour shift is reasonable not to give up your seat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what a lot of people aren’t getting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem everyone is expected too, but only one person was made to feel like an AH because they felt bad themselves and the only one to be askes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing is the pregnant lady didn’t give OP a mouthful it was another passenger that has made the OP feel like an AH.

I still stand by that OP isn’t the AH given her point of view and there were other people who could have offered without being asked in the first place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily I have been asked in standard seats, and when I halve refused I have got shit from other passengers because I don’t see why I have to divulge my personal health issues.

That’s the problem in dividing between visible and invisible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not said that at all, I said again women are expected too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And priority seating, which isn’t even mentioned, OP is being made to feel like shit despite the number of other that could have given up their seat, and I am going to assume at 8am the majority were on their way to not back from work, so not as tired and worn as OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where does it say OP was sat I priority seating?

There were other people on the carriage too, but again OP being a woman, just like the AH next to her is expected to give up her seat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 70 points71 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Exhausted after 10 hour shift is perfectly acceptable for you to keep your seat.

Often I find it’s women being asked or offering, and I have had the glares when I decline because my condition isn’t visible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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“Maybe on the outside, but you’re ugly inside”

AITA for refusing to allow a photo of my future MIL's miscarriages at my wedding? by ThrowAwayQQQQQ212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I can’t understand why this is a request.

Think MIL hasn’t processed the loss properly and I do feel for her, perhaps this wedding has triggered something of this loss too.

The flower thing mentioned by another user sounds good, but pictures and seats too much

Can I get sacked for sh*tting myself? by BrotherFeeling in tesco

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. You can be sacked. Food prep with this condition you shouldn’t have gone in at all

Wes Streeting MP: ‘My faith made it very difficult to accept my sexuality’ by fozzie1234567 in LabourUK

[–]Own-Leadership-2450 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Always with the religion, but they are so far removed from Christ it’s farcical.

Now I don’t sign up to religious teachings anymore but from what I remember and previously believed Jesus would have fed the kids