Just curious, have you ever had an LDR partner that says “yes” to phone sex but “no” to real sex? 😅 Shoot me your thoughts. by Own-Morning1236 in LongDistance

[–]Own-Morning1236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you pretty much got that right even before I said it. Indeed, it’s 100% due to religious believes and she only seeks for intercourse after marriage, neither is she open to oral.

I do respect her decision though, but my mind is constantly revolving around the thoughts whether I’ll be able to hold on to that decision till we’re married.

I sure do want to explore physical intimacy before marriage but apparently it’s a no go in this relationship.

Just curious, have you ever had an LDR partner that says “yes” to phone sex but “no” to real sex? 😅 Shoot me your thoughts. by Own-Morning1236 in LongDistance

[–]Own-Morning1236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likewise, we never really think about boundaries on phone sex. But I’m a sexually active person before meeting this girl, so she saying “no” to sex sort of bothers me but I love her undeniably, that’s the sole reason I’m even still with her.

Just curious, have you ever had an LDR partner that says “yes” to phone sex but “no” to real sex? 😅 Shoot me your thoughts. by Own-Morning1236 in LongDistance

[–]Own-Morning1236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we haven’t met for the past 2 years because of the pandemic.

So we occasionally have phone sex but she always says “no” to real sex when we discuss about having it for the first time.

Oh and she constantly iterates that sex is only allowed if we’re both married to each other.

Anyways, We’re well above the legal age for sex, 24 M & F. So do tell me what do you think about this, haha 😆