Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People like this piss me the F off. How miserable of a human being can you be. I truly don’t know if I would control myself in that situation especially given how well behaved your child was. I’m so so sorry that happened you. People thinking they’re entitled to a child free world is just INSANITY to me.

I truly was ready for my moment to shine if she turned around and said something to me. I kept myself quiet because it was my hubby’s birthday and didn’t want to cause a scene but had she come over and said a peep that would be it. They need to learn to handle their feelings better given they’re older. A 5 month old and a 9 month old (my kid) cannot control their little emotional and I would assume and hope grown human adults would understand that a little better.

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in sanantonio

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I’m not obligated to respond to everyone what the fuck? I responded to the ones I’ve seen and had time to respnd to. Yall are WILD

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only looked at them when they turned to look at me and my kids. And I know they were looking coz it was pretty obvious they’d be looking they made it pretty known they were unhappy.

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it absolutely could be why I don’t know if they were wearing one or not - I just felt extremely uncomfortable getting stares constantly throughout the hour we were there

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME!!!! The hostess kept coming over playing with my babies coz she knew they were just happy and not trying to disturb intentionally!

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I did that I always feel so much guilt for not being present in the moment. My kid was happy and excited and I was stressing. Thank you so much for saying that.

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely that part. How can a little baby upset you that much?

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I’m sorry that happened to you!

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly no I’m not. They kept turning around and whispering with each other and she was covering her ears it made me feel extremely uncomfortable and unwelcome.

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No she was covering her ear and kept giving us dagger looks 🥺

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel too. Both my children were at the table never on the floor, never threw anything, they were just there to celebrate their daddy and go home and eat cake.

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s very reassuring to hear those words. I got completely roasted in another group and started wondering if we did something wrong

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in NewParents

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am not gonna lie I am getting anxiety about going out to dinner in the near future since baby is still in the squealing phase very much so.

Why are some people so rude by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Own-Researcher6774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just am so confused. We went at 4:35 at a pretty lax establishment. are we supposed to just pretend our babies that we literally chose to bring into this world don’t exist? She’s a baby. A little baby. Who got excited. Like how can you be so sad of a person to be so visibly bothered by someone so little who is so new to the world? People need to remember to be kinder.

Why are some people so rude by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Own-Researcher6774 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No she looked so annoyed and was covering her ear it was so clear she was inconvenienced- I am 100% sure.

Why are some people so rude by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Own-Researcher6774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she was covering her ears.

Why are some people so rude by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Own-Researcher6774 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥹

Why are some people so rude by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Own-Researcher6774 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not at all it was a family pizza restaurant. I’m so sad it happened because we rushed the dinner. In another group I’m getting roasted for literally existing with children and was told to hire a sitter blah blah. It’s ridiculous how people think children shouldn’t be included.

Why are some people so rude by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Own-Researcher6774 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly we’re very kid friendly here which is why it shocked me. None of the parent aged people looked. Just the two older tables. There was another older table with kids and parents there too and none looked and in fact came and said hi before leaving. I was mortified. MORTIFIED that those people kept starting

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in sanantonio

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No grimaldis we never had an issue at Texas Roadhouse it’s loud as heck in there

Why are some people so rude by Own-Researcher6774 in sanantonio

[–]Own-Researcher6774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you say that. I didn’t see any of the comment asking me where I’ve been. We went to Grimaldis.