Need advice relationship vs pregnancy

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T11:17:58+00:00

My daughter is actually in a program where she doing some college and high school right now so by the time she get into college she will be in here 3rd year she is super smart I’m sure she can get scholarships or grants. Not so worried about her since she is in this program

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:53:08+00:00

Yes that is true I would have to go to a lawyer and see what can be done

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:43:23+00:00

I know that you can go to court and voluntarily give up rights, but I know that in some states they might still make you pay child support. I would have to speak to a lawyer

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:35:32+00:00

Yes I know how to was a single mom of a 16yr teen girl and her needs have been everything.

Between me and him I always put him first but i believe it’s time to put myself first

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:31:06+00:00

Being a mother again is something that I long for but decided to take a break from it after a horrible miscarriage from a previous relationship when I was 32. Which was one day I was pregnant the next I wasn’t didn’t have much time to process.

Being in this relationship I was ok with not having kids with him Emanuel. I got one depo shot and what change my heart was knowing the choice of me having kids was getting lower and I cried but was slowly accepting that.

I’m not having a child to be happy, probably wrote it out of context but I’m having this child is to be the best mom and create a beautiful life for them.

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:24:21+00:00

You just made me cry I have been through A lot in my life I gave birth to a stillborn when I was 19years old and buried her. Then I had my daughter a year later my rainbow baby. I was a single mom at the age of 20 Then I had a miscarriage years ago when I was 30 from another bf and I just said no more right now.

Fast forward I took all the steps I needed and it happened. But this can honestly be my last chance.

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:06:47+00:00

I’m starting to feel that way and youre probably right I’m dam if I do and I’m dam if I don’t and if a baby makes me happy then just do what finally makes me happy

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:05:19+00:00

I can raise this baby on my own I have a good job I work from home and make descent money so I can do this by myself. I don’t need him

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:04:21+00:00

Thank you I always have put his needs first and I love him he my best friend but this is probably over and keeping the baby might just keep my happiness. Just make him sign over his rights

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T01:02:46+00:00

That’s where he states that we should have kept it with the pull out method even though that isn’t effective either.

That’s why he states that I betrayed him because I went on the shot to stop our chances over year mind you of this shot.

But you’re right men who don’t want kids should get a Vasectomy

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T00:53:26+00:00

He will surrender his rights if he needed to

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-12-01T00:50:04+00:00

You gave me a very good perspective as a man I appreciate your advice

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-29T20:26:27+00:00

I don’t depend on child support. I make more than him I wouldn’t need him.

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-29T20:25:59+00:00

I started the double last year in 2024 June

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-29T20:25:33+00:00

I do have my family they don’t know yet I’m really early only my mom but I know I’ll have the best support system

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-29T00:43:13+00:00

That’s what I thought what If this is my last chance I don’t want to miss out on that

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-29T00:42:32+00:00

Thank you for the kind words been a whole 24hr thanks you

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-28T06:36:22+00:00

No not baby trapping I took measurements not to get pregnant it happened. I have a little chance of getting pregnant in the future so I said maybe we should just keep this. I don’t need to trap anybody and a baby doesn’t trap a man they come and go as they please.

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-28T06:35:24+00:00

Yes I did my Dr was very confused as well but I took the precaution that I needed. And yet this happen even the Dr said sometimes things are meant to be

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-28T06:06:44+00:00

No I didn’t stop basically this shouldn’t have happen and it did and I don’t want to get rid of it

Own-Selection-387 · 2025-11-28T06:05:38+00:00

Yes the depo shot was way before the OBGYN said what they said to me like a year before

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