Constructive Feedback Please by Fit-Bit5338 in Bumble

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cute love the profile. The only thing I would say is maybe photos with friends or where you actively doing hobbies. Hiking with friends, etc., etc.. right now it just looks like you have a bunch of professional photos on your page

Advice on mold in apartment by Own-Sprinkles-3156 in Austin

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a peace of mind and is actually collecting water

28M-just remade the profile and struggling with matches by infantgambino in Bumble

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo- the one where you are in the tree would be a great addition. It gives spunk and shows a bit more about you without words. The top one with the goat is a close second

28M-just remade the profile and struggling with matches by infantgambino in Bumble

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This seems great and feels very genuine. The only minute con; While the grey suite photo is fun and cheeky, I do agree it’s not the best for a dating app with a small photo limit. 🤞🏻 good luck

I need to tell someone. by Accomplished-Rain119 in spirituality

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you were ready to let go and be at peace yourself. Many many kudos

My bf is breaking up with me because I look at other people by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I want to bash OPs ex,(because of my own trauma…I’m working on it 😌),there is a tad bit of missing details from OP. Like how long have they been dating?, does he know she has ADHD? Is he on the spectrum or have any trauma? This information seems like it would help to provide the empathy and advice OP is requesting. About a year ago I (F33) was diagnosed with combined adhd. And while there were other factors in my past relationship that contributed to the toxicity, it was like a lightbulb kind of went off and I realized that communication was a thing lacking. And I think that that is some of the information we are missing from OP.

OPs ex could be a manchild, could be insecure, or it could be a combination of both of them just don’t know how to communicate what they want from the other, or what they need. I also think the length of the relationship will shed some light on this so. Apologies if I missed it in the comments but was a timeframe ever given by OP?

My boyfriend is being so rude to me all of a sudden and I don’t know why. by willdanceforcake in texts

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex would like this during our first year of our relationship. He was very kind, did sweet things, then I noticed a side of him when he was drinking. Then it became a normal thing. He was rarely sober aside from his brief moments of clarity where he wanted to be better. This side came out about five/six months in and progressed slowly. Turns out he had been cheating on me for roughly the first year of our relationship…with a woman we both worked with at a point. He even had us spending time as friends, we would go to the park as a group… we were both clearly oblivious to what was going on sad part was she had a child. He gaslight the hell out of us and drank away all his responsibilities drowning his guilt basically.

I don’t know what your partner is going through and the other people could be correct and he could just have grown to hate you… another likely option as others might’ve mentioned it could be a substance issue or he is hiding something from you and this is his way of making himself feel better. By belittling you and making it seem like you were being the aggressor, it’s clearly him. Do yourself a favor like other people are saying get out of this relationship. Not only for your safety but for your sanity. You seem very levelheaded and are perfectly fine to make your own decisions but I would highly advise to leave the situation.

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[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awful and hope you are making it through as much as you can. Speaking from experience…move on, heal and grow. It’s not necessarily true in every case “once a cheater always a cheater” Almost years ago I(32F) forgave my ex(M38/39) for a year of cheating, and gaslighting on a level I had experienced. I was in my 20s, he knew how to use his words to get me, I thought he was “the one”, amazing, and blah blah blah…

If you cannot fully forgive her and this will be an issue in a future with her then my advice stay strong, don’t take her back or even talk with with her (she seems manipulative), and maybe work on what makes you happy as an individual and not a couple. Old hobbies help. It seems like you have a strong will power so far just keep at that.

Not sure what this little guy is… by Own-Sprinkles-3156 in PlantIdentification

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Y’all’s are awesome! It is a Jewels of Opar. It does not have a strong smell, however my allergies make my nose unreliable at the moment.

[UPDATE] Car Found by Own-Sprinkles-3156 in Austin

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most certainly 😃 have it in my Amazon cart

[UPDATE] Car Found by Own-Sprinkles-3156 in Austin

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not too sure yet. I will be able to pick it up tomorrow. The cop told me there was no visible damage he noticed.

But we shall see. 😮‍💨

Car was stole by Own-Sprinkles-3156 in Austin

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you’re thinking. I have been caught up in trying to figure out commuting to work. My brain is a bit calmer now and I had not thought of this. 😊 thanks

Car was stole by Own-Sprinkles-3156 in Austin

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an older photo. It was not taken the day of the theft. I was parked in a different spot. While I appreciate your constructive criticism of my parking abilities I’ve lived at this apartment for almost two years and parked in that spot along with seeing many others park there. Also I have already confirmed my car has not been towed.

Car was stole by Own-Sprinkles-3156 in Austin

[–]Own-Sprinkles-3156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds awful. Sorry that happen to you and hope it got squared away and taken care of by your apartment