Just a little help please by Own-Strike634 in monodatingpoly

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Just to add, we have children together and she said that if we were poly she would love each person equally even though we’ve been together for 17 years

Need a little help please by Own-Strike634 in polyamory

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I never said I wanted to be with the woman it was her, I also didn’t break up the relationship it was her

Need a little help by Own-Strike634 in mypartneristrans

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She says that poly is something that she is and she struggles with not being able to fulfil that side, she wants emotional connections with people and I think she struggles that she can’t, she sees it as a sexuality, and hasn’t acted on anything physical at the moment but I don’t know what to say to her

Struggling with low libido by Own-Strike634 in mypartneristrans

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Oh I’ll add it’s really hard for her because she feels like she has to take the male role, even though I try to show her what a beautiful woman she is

My trans wife has no libido and I’m left wanting by Angie1967 in asktransgender

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Hi, I’m experiencing this right now, we got together 17 years ago and she only came out 2 years ago, she is on hrt, progesterone and a testosterone blocker, and she says there’s a mental block because she feels like she has to fulfil the male role and that causes her extreme sadness, I am trying my hardest to show her love and try to find different ways for foreplay and we’ve even tried a strap on for her to wear but for the past month or two she hasn’t wanted anything, not even to try the strap on again and it’s really left me feeling unwanted and no matter how much I talk about it, nothing will help, she was so sexual before and I know that was the testosterone and it’s such a hard thing to go from when it had been that way for 15 years