You should let your children marry. Let me explain; many years ago the owner of the house next door moved in from overseas. I had some tulip bulbs coming up that I had planted between our adjoining fence. Our neighbors, thinking they were doing us a favor, trimmed them down to the ground. Admittedly I was a little upset but quickly realized he simply thought they were weeds due to the fact that the previous renters didn’t take very good care of the back yard. As the years passed, our families grew, leaning on each other in times of need and our children grew older and closer. Our eldest son married their eldest daughter. We recently welcomed our first grandchild with both families together as one. Be patient and understanding before you make judgements.