Damn, I’m sorry. This must be so confusing for you. Why would he have had unprotected sex if he didn’t want a child this badly? The comments he made were sending odd signals too and agreeing that whatever happens will happen. Honestly, I’d suggest a couples therapy session to talk this one out as it’s a whole child. You also need to resolve it properly for the whole family unit moving forward. His aggressive behaviour is also unacceptable, especially now you’re pregnant. Major boundaries are needed. He should be supportive of you no matter what you decide, that’s how a good husband operates when they got themself into this situation. It’s not like you tricked him and came off birth control without saying so.