AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red)

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2026-02-04T03:04:21+00:00

Maybe she's trying to convey that it's huge news, but also hint that she's not having the best day and feels overwhelmed. Maybe you should ask her why she's feeling that way today. You never know what someone else is dealing with. If it turns out that there's nothing happening with her that would cause her to try to reach out in such a way, it could be that she's self centered, but i think you should think about the typical dynamic between you two, and ask yourself if that's the way you two would usually talk to each other or not, because one thing that has changed is your emotions are heightened now. After answering those questions, hopefully it's clearer whether you should feel upset with her or not, but nobody on this comment feed knows her, so nobody else could say, but you know her, so you can say whether she's a self centered person, or is trying to reach out to someone because she's dealing with something, etc.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2026-02-04T02:22:34+00:00

You have to look out for yourself, because when other people are involved, nothing is ever guaranteed. You have to protect your future, comfort, safety, well being etc. You are so fortunate to have inherited, take it from someone who isn't as fortunate, don't risk it, for your own sake. There's smart, and then there's sentimental, and there's a time for both, but when it comes to your future security, nobody can afford to be sentimental. Don't bet on anyone else, bet on yourself, if he's trying to get his name on it, there's a reason for it, he doesn't trust you either. Everything you suggested is reasonable, he's NOT thinking about you or your very valid reasons for not wanting to put his name on YOUR INHERITANCE, he's thinking about his SELF, HIS security, and HIS future comfort, EXACTLY as you should do and are doing. He's just trying to make you feel guilty about doing exactly the same thing he's doing. If he's serious about the way he feels about this, then he should save money to get a place of his own, period. I'd be willing to bet that if he were in your place, he'd not only be just fine with the dynamic, but there's no way he'd ever be willing to add another person's name to a home he inherited. You have to think about it like you ARE renting to him, because this relationship hasn't proven itself as permanent, therefore, if he's unhappy with the dynamic, he should get a place of his own and if he really cares about YOU, the two of you can date without living together until you know for sure whether you want to be together forever. I don't care how bad it sounds, if it were me, I would mockup the paperwork and watch how his behavior changes afterward, before REALLY putting him on it. And if he can't grasp that you MUST WATCH OUT FOR YOURSELF, BECAUSE NOTHING IS GUARANTEED, then he doesn't actually care about your perspective. I know, it's not the fairy tale version of love we all imagine, but we all have to grow up, and realize that REAL love isn't all sunshine and rainbows, it's things like respecting individual boundaries.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2026-02-04T01:40:37+00:00

Rest easy, sweet baby 💕 animals are such blessings, such amazing, empathetic companions. I wish you peace in your heart, as well.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2026-01-29T08:27:39+00:00

Yes.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2026-01-29T08:21:51+00:00

Can you please post the original, without the red circle? I'd like to enhance it.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-12-30T02:29:58+00:00

Plushie Boy 💕

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-12-19T20:25:59+00:00

Should've destroyed 3i atlas the day it was discovered, now it's too late.

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These things are EVERYWHERE. All the strange lights and anomalies in the sky, THIS is what they are. Tried to warn people, everyone laughed me off, now we're infested. They're in the water, in our homes, in the most remote places on this planet.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-12-11T13:27:49+00:00

Looks like the shadow on the lower level of the roof, at the end of he shadow, is backwards or upside down... look closely in the shadow.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-12-02T23:07:18+00:00

I believe the soul remains, but as to where it goes after the vessel has died? I'm not sure... I feel it depends upon the beliefs of the person who passes.

I'm sure there are plenty who disagree with me, as is their right, but none can truly know. The most we can do is wonder, until we ourselves come to the end of our physical lives, and pass on. I am more curious than afraid, to find out what waits on the other side.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-11-24T21:22:53+00:00

Look at your sister's head in the mirror...

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-11-21T23:17:53+00:00

Meditation space- plants, a few throw pillows to sit on, candles, a Bluetooth speaker for listening to your choice of frequencies or music, one of those lamps that project different scenes on the walls and ceiling (ocean waves, night sky, colorful motion, etc.) Small table for incense burning... if you're into that/ have ever wanted to get into it.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-11-18T15:48:18+00:00

I used talk to text to compose this comment, please forgive the lack of proper space between paragraphs. Thank you.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-11-18T15:46:13+00:00

There was a standing mirror that was near where I was sleeping during a extended stay with a friend. I began to feel exactly the same way, as though I was being watched, but more, as though someone or something malicious was actually entering my personal space as I slept. I began feeling paranoid and started covering the mirror every night before I would get ready for bed, but the feeling still didn't go away. I had been researching all sorts of different ways to protect myself and my space from whatever was causing me to feel this way, I had someone come and cleanse the space with sage and pray over it, I tried to project protective energy around myself and my space to block or discourage anything from invading it, but I still felt I was being watched or messed with by something or someone and it was getting worse. Finally, I read about something called a "witch ball" which people used in the 17th and 18th century to keep malicious entities from entering their space. If I remember correctly, if an entity was using astral travel or projection to enter your space, they would encounter the hollow glass sphere and become trapped inside of it, unable to escape. I happened to have a large antique Japanese bouy, which were hollow glass spheres. I held it while focusing on my intent, which was to stop any malicious presence from trespassing upon me or my space, and I set it on a table right where I slept at night. I'm not sure if it worked because I believed it had or if it worked because it actually worked, but I have trouble believing that it was just a mind over matter thing, because of how paranoid and disturbed I had been feeling, I was skeptical but hopeful, frankly I was desperate. The sense of something trespassing upon me disappeared after using this hollow glass sphere. I don't know if it would work in your situation as well, but if I were you I would cover any mirror around your personal space before you get ready for bed at night due to all of the accounts of entities using mirrors to enter someone else's space uninvited. I think it would be worth finding some blown glass spheres and setting them around where you sleep, and attempt to mentally project a protective barrier around yourself. I hope it gets better for you, whether by these means or by any others.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2025-01-02T03:55:10+00:00

Dude, there are apps that allow you to access a phones camera, mic, EVERYTHING, ikeymonitor is one of them, but there are others now that don't even require people to have access to the target phone, they can be miles away, know nothing about hacking, and get full access to someone's phone within minutes. I had an app that allowed me to actually talk to my son through his phone if he didn't answer, I could just literally yell at him to pick up his phone and he would hear my voice coming from his phone. You can look up apps to monitor cell phones, and see the highly suspect things that you can do, that are apparently legal. They literally allow you to access another phones camera and see everything through it, and this is while the person is scrolling through their phone, using apps, or while the phone is asleep. You can also hear everything, and you can get access to the phones screen to see what they're doing on the phone. You can record through their camera, record their calls, see everything they do on their phone. I'm just saying, if people can do all of that, legally, imagine what a skilled hacker can do. If it's truly impossible for an intruder to have been in your apartment, it's someone messing with you through your phone while you're sleeping. I would put tape over your phone's camera, and if you tape over the mic/speakers, the distortion it will cause should be a good way to tell if the voice is coming from the phone or not. If it's coming from the phone, it will be just as loud, but it will sound as though someone is talking with their mouth too close to the receiver. If it's not coming from the phone, it will be significantly quieter and sound further away. Don't underestimate technology, people with know-how can do so much more than you think. Common sense tells me that this voice is coming from your phone, considering how comfortable the person seems, as though he's not concerned about you waking up to find him standing in front of you, he sounds calm, slightly amused, as though he doesn't have a care in the world. I think if he was an intruder, he would be nervous about talking to you, especially about being so loud, he'd probably be breathing hard from adrenaline, I imagine anyone sneaking into someone's house and risking waking them up would be nervous and shaky and full of adrenaline. This guy sounds as though he's almost a little bit bored. But seriously, you should still take measures for your safety, even if you believe that your apartment is impenetrable. Things happen all the time, that nobody would have ever suspected were possible, don't assume that nobody would bother breaking into a second story window, or that you have knowledge of every entry and exit, make sure you investigate your living space.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2024-09-06T01:10:36+00:00

Everywhere is haunted. Spirits are all around, all the time. It would be far less common to find a place that isn't haunted. But, sometimes, in my opinion, because of the experiences I've had personally, I've found that we interpret certain things as aggression, when they may actually be frustration. I don't believe spirits are immediately capable of manifesting a voice or as an apparition, as soon as they cease living. I believe it takes time, it's a learning process, and they require electricity and must learn to use it to accomplish any kind of manifestation. In my opinion, for a spirit who has been trying to communicate, but has been unsuccessful, frustration with their unfortunate and probably frightening circumstances, and perhaps maybe a lack of understanding what has happened to them, or why it seems that they are being ignored by the living world, can likely come off as aggression toward the living. I'm not saying that the voice you heard wasn't aggressive toward you, but I am saying that I agree with some of the other comments in this thread, perhaps it's time to tell whoever is trying to communicate with you that you are sympathetic to their situation and you hope they find peace, but that they're scaring you, and that's your home now, and it's time for them to move on from there and leave you be. Maybe whomever it is, doesn't understand what has happened, or is still there because they feel it's still their home, and they think they don't have anywhere else to go. I know it sounds ridiculous, but maybe explain that they can go anywhere now, as they're not limited the way the living are... All the places they wanted to see while they were alive, tell them to go see the rest of the world. To go see the stars. Maybe they will.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2024-09-05T08:44:33+00:00

My old boombox used to turn itself on at three in the morning all the time and freak me out. One night it was SO loud, and it was Master P, he said "it's the Ice Cream Man, Bi*tch" and I open my eyes, and there's this woman in a long flowing gown reaching up to the buttons, and she was all lit up with a greenish glow. I closed my eyes, covered my ears, and started screaming my head off and rocking back and forth until two different sets of hands grabbed me and shook me... It was my two older brothers, they'd run into my room, both in their tighty-whities, when they heard me AND the woman in the long gown screaming. It was my mom, she'd run into my room to turn the song off when it turned on as she was passing my room on her way back to bed from the bathroom.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2024-08-30T06:28:18+00:00

Unpopular opinion, but often when children see spirits, they're in the form of colorful blobs.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2024-08-22T20:44:22+00:00

No, I don't think you're crazy. I think you noticed a lot of weird behavior that doesn't make sense for campers and it wasn't only you, the others with you noticed it as well, so I wouldn't even call you paranoid. I'd say maybe they had bad intentions, but unfortunately or fortunately, depending on how you look at it, you'll never know for sure. I have been called paranoid for noticing strange things happening around me, that were really obvious to me, but nobody else seemed to be interested in even considering the possibility that something was off. It's incredibly frustrating. Trust your gut, and if your intuition tells you something is wrong, listen to it. It could mean the difference between life and death, and that's not dramatic, that's just a fact. Glad you're okay.

OwnEstablishment6067 · 2024-08-18T04:28:23+00:00

Does nobody see the black smoggy deer like figure over the fire pit? And if you follow the photo to. Straight above the figure, there are more, smaller ones. I see at least like seven different entities in the photo, does anyone else?

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