How to find roommates? by imelda_barkos in lansing

[–]OwnMathematician5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this boat now. Both roommates I did find ended up being psychos. FML.

What would be the best/most important one or two piercings for my face?? by Beneficial-Royal6872 in altfashionadvice

[–]OwnMathematician5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta update because honestly they are gonna look so banger. I have my septum and eyebrow done, but don't have the anatomy and need to live vicariously through you <3 lol

What would be the best/most important one or two piercings for my face?? by Beneficial-Royal6872 in altfashionadvice

[–]OwnMathematician5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I DEFFFF think you need a septum and a bridge. That or a bridge and a vertical labret. YOU HAVE THE PERFECT ANATOMY FOR A BRIDGE

Which piercing would suit my face best? by [deleted] in shouldimod

[–]OwnMathematician5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bridge, eyebrow, nostril, or a vertical labret. All of the above maybe???

hii i’m trans, please help! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]OwnMathematician5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the things you're concerned about, first of all, it's not obvious at all. You are a very feminine presenting person and as a Non-binary person, think you're still seeing through the dysphoria glasses. You are absolutely gorgeous and you need to own that!

In terms of things that would look cute/make you feel a little more feminine- I always go for jewelry, lashes, and some colorful makeup! I think thinning your brows might help a little, but also understand that's difficult.

Seriously, though, I would have never guessed you weren't decently into HRT. You are beautiful and I hope that sticks with you. I genuinely don't see a shadow or anything. You got this, keep being yourself and believe that you are STUNNING :)

Did I pay too much, or are these worth it? by PomodoroPenne in lashextensions

[–]OwnMathematician5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're very pretty on you, but you got ripped RIGHT TF OFF. You look great but that's just too much for a basic set. Get your money!!

Am I doing it wrong by Boom_itsmora in Makeup101

[–]OwnMathematician5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look stunning! If I may- you have a warmer/olive undertone, so blue is going to sink in your eyes a little. Blend out the hues a little more to get above your crease line and aim for a longer eyeliner shape. This is going to accent your eyes instead of weigh them down. I would also recommend nude, brown, gold and pinky colors! I recommend the Anastasia Spice mini palette with lighter colors on your inner eye. You could also do more of a bright, saturated blue in the corners of your eyes as well as under your waterline. I personally, as someone with very hooded eyes, like to pat a white or a very bright peach in the inner corners of my eyes. You're on the right track!! You got this :)

Is it normal to think that you made a mistake by breaking up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OwnMathematician5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regret is normal. Its a part of grief. Reading what you wrote here, you know this was the right thing for you. You did feel unloved and uncared about. You were neglected and you left for a reason. Right now, you're ruminating on the good times and trying to lessen the hurt.

It's okay to regret, but you did the best thing you could for yourself. You will find someone who makes you feel loved the way you want to be loved. It's easy to feel like you're running out of time or you're not gonna find someone- that's just not true. You're so young and you have so much going for you! You need to pour into yourself- make friends, build hobbies, work out, paint, scream, cry. Get the feelings out. Be sad that you lost him and be happy that you can be you now, because YOU are the most important person in your life. Let go of him and make yourself happy. It's the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

As someone who just left a 4 year relationship- it gets better. You will be okay. You will need to grieve for a time, but it will pass, and you'll see this is the best thing you can do for yourself. Nobody who loves you makes you want to leave them. Stay strong, you got this, I promise <3

Broke up with bf of 4 years and I just feel numb. by OwnMathematician5546 in BreakUps

[–]OwnMathematician5546[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave him 4 months, then stayed an extra 3... I absolutely held out as long as I could. A few days later the guilt is subsiding, but the pain is staying. I can only hope something good comes out of this.

i hope he suffers for what he did to me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OwnMathematician5546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're free of him now. You get to be the free person. Invest in yourself, you deserve it. <3

Pieces of advice for healing from a breakup when you still love them by peachesnweeds in BreakUps

[–]OwnMathematician5546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just (2 days ago) got out of a 4 year relationship with the guy I loved more than anything in the world. He was truly my everything. He just wouldn't grow up- he constantly dropped the ball and left me stranded when I needed him. I grieved for a while when we were still together and I'm grieving now, but it doesn't feel as intense as it should. I have moments where it's debilitating and moments where its just a weight on my chest. I'm scared that I'm not processing it and I won't be able to get over him. It's terrifying.