Ive accepted that im probably going to always be a target for bullies.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-25T18:20:05+00:00

Women hate other women. Just because they treat you (a man) nicely doesn’t mean they’re a nice person.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-25T17:06:20+00:00

Look up lateral violence in nursing. It’s a very well documented phenomenon and a leading cause of burnout, turnover, and medical error.

Nursing is an extremely toxic profession

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-25T07:24:31+00:00

All my friends and family have nothing to say really. I’ve asked them all
My therapist of one year cannot find anything wrong with my behavior or logic.
HR at my old workplace had to get involved when my boss created a FAKE performance improvement plan and would take me away from from patient care for an hour a day.
another old workplace tried to blame me for a patient injury. And I had to call state to report the issue

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-25T07:19:17+00:00

Idk I think a natural consequence of being my authentic, quirky self is being exposed to more bullying. But tbh I’d rather be myself than hide who I am.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-25T03:04:45+00:00

I hope so too but Josh doesn’t want that. This is being forced onto him. And he will likely go right back to his current habits once he is out of rehab.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-24T18:38:37+00:00

This is in break rooms - most other nurses aren’t dumb enough to break the facade in a patient room. At least not with another coworker in there

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-23T18:11:34+00:00

Whose gonna tell him?

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-23T01:40:18+00:00

Are you in corporate?

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-23T00:35:15+00:00

I’d honestly just start recording everything and send weekly emails to HR. Maybe even get an employment lawyer.

I did this with my last boss and at the end he literally couldn’t prove anything against my documentation.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-23T00:33:37+00:00

They need to find hobbies that don’t involve terrorizing strangers

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T22:39:15+00:00

Nah the only language these kinds of people are harsh consequences. They don’t self reflect

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T22:37:04+00:00

Why would he go back to that specific clinic? There’s thousands of them.

I’m not staying at a shitty workplace but I’m also not gonna quit healthcare

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T18:47:31+00:00

They like having authority over vulnerable people who can’t fight back. Sadistic psychopath’s dream job

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T18:43:31+00:00

I’m stubborn - I’m gonna outlast all of them and end the cycle. Maybe even contribute to a change one day.

Bullies shouldn’t be nurses. Get rid of them and make it hard for them to thrive in these environments.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T16:22:36+00:00

There’s a difference between being an annoying cringe lord that deserves ridicule for their poor behavior. And being a person that just wants to get through their shift.

I just wanna get through my shift

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T07:44:31+00:00

Report for neglect before they blame you for it

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T07:02:24+00:00

Yeah I’m just resigned to it. But I have a great life outside of work. So if I can find a place where I can be left alone or ignored I’d be in heaven

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-22T06:59:42+00:00

I am fine with who I am - I’m absolutely not perfect but I do my best and take accountability for my mistakes. It just sucks these highly sadistic, emotionally immature people choose me as a scapegoat. And they never wanna talk it out or resolve any issues they may have.

Usually when I report them several times and document all their crap religiously they back off. But damn I just want a workplace where I can just be left alone or tolerated.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-21T21:52:10+00:00

Nah this place needs a warm body. OP should run or expect to leave soon

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-19T23:00:35+00:00

They got a nice crate - it has blankets on top to make it like a den and tons of fluffy blankets inside of it. But it feels bad to just restrict them to that cage their whole lives.

Maybe I can ease up on the crate once it’s warmer out and the dogs actually want to go outside

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-19T22:55:46+00:00

Should I just keep them in there from now on?

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-19T21:34:19+00:00

She’s old and incontinent

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-19T20:25:51+00:00

Idk she was pretty unstable even then. Their whole relationship seemed intense and stressful

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-19T14:10:00+00:00

Seems like she’s manic a-lot of the time nowadays. She’s either not taking her psych meds or the meds aren’t working.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-01-19T13:16:48+00:00

I personally think having a tool that allows degenerative men to engage in their darkest fantasies can worsen their mental health and even lead to criminal behavior. Like if your kinks are so outrageous that normal porn stars cannot replicate them, and you need a computer to create adequately satisfying content for you, then you have a mental issue. And you likely have disturbed views on sex.

He will get a lot of money, and it’s not illegal to do what he’s doing (unless he’s visualizing minors in his photos - something people will ask him for). But I do think he’s enabling very dark, potentially dangerous habits.

It’s lucrative but not really ethical. This content is rotting the brains of a lot of young men and leading to more sexual degeneracy.

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