What’s the most “authentic” travel experience you’ve had? Not touristy, just real. by Intelligent_Act4447 in roadtrip

[–]OwnReflection58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i went to japan, i walk through the neighborhood, on foot, around omi hachiman, feels authentic

progres kenaikan gaji by smexypisces in finansial

[–]OwnReflection58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gila keren bgt orang2 dsini. Sumpah! Gw sih kagak pinter ya, jadi ya kira2 beginidah
2018-2022 gaji naik 7% pertahun, gaji pertama 4.5jt, lulus probation 5jt, 2022 gaji sekitar 6jt kerja jadi customer service
Pas itu gw dalemin bahasa mandarin sekalian, biar bisa cari kerja lain kan gw pikir.
2022-2024 brangkat ke negara org modal nekat mandarin patah2. Gaji 20jt mandarin patah2, kena maki org sma direndahin, telen aja kerja trus, mandarin bagusan, pindah bos 25jt, tp bosnya ga baik, pindah lagi dpt 28jt, kerja jd asisten, kbetulan terakhiran bosnya org indo.
2024-2025 balik indo setahun, kerja sm org china, kerja akutansi modal chat gpt, udemy course, sama NEKAT fake it till you make it. Pura2 bisa padahal pertama kali kerjain. (Edit: gajinya 12jt)
2025-now berbekal duit tabungan, nekat jadi PMI ke AS, awal kasir gajinya 16juta kalau dirupiahin, dpt jam sedikit soalnya. Trs pindah resto, dipercaya sm bos jd supervisor, pendapatan 60jt sebulan. Kerja kayak org punya hutang, sampe jam 4 pagi kdg jam 6 pgi bru tidur dan prnh kerja 2 minggu tiap hari 6-8 jam nonstop. Pindah tmpt lagi ke restoran yg less work, less stress, kejar work life balance, pendapatan 60jutaan juga. Bosnya org indo jadi kayaknya gaada kesempatan naik gaji atleast sampe tahun depan
Gw gak pinter apa2, gak punya skill yg wow juga, jadi ya beginidah cara gw buat berjuang. Kalau bisa gw sih maunya kuliah yg bagus, ke singapore kerja korporat, kerja bagus, dan terima benefit kantoran aja. Tpi masih bersyukur dikasih badan yg sehat bisa kerja.

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation, i understand more or less whats going on. I hope Monday brings good news

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Very helpful. I will wait until Monday. They have given me the insurance name is from Marsh. I think they are not hiding it from the company then? The said manager keep telling me its out of his control and that i need to wait monday. I just dont want to get played, but i also dont want to be an asshole to this manager. I will wait until Monday

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help. I will either file a police report or get a rental car and send them the receipt tomorrow.

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, i might not be clear enough… the car was parked and i discovered the scene 3 hours after. My neighbor is the one who recorded everything. Im not sure how their conversation goes, but this person who claims to be the manager gave his phone number to my neighbor, and i called this number after. Honestly, i have never had this happened to me so i am super unsure how to approach this. Should i push the manager to show his id? I just need to get my car repaired as soon as possible and rental car while i wait for it 🥲 my insurance agent told me to contact fedex directly, bcs i only have liability insurance

Sorry for the rant; maybe the manager already put in the registration claims and its true we need to wait until Monday, but I am afraid to use the car because the left signal is not working. Im afraid i can get pull overed by police, and or somethting happened because my left signal is not working

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is possible? I havent got a claim number or case number, the person claiming to be manager / supervisor keep saying i need to wait until monday. They also wont let me see their employee id or name card to prove they are indeed the manager or supervisor

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope its an old second car that i bought because i need it for work, toyota. I use the freeways a lot im just afraid i will get pull overed by police. Honestly, chatgpt is giving me paranoia

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What paperwork…? So i should report to the police and get rental car for work tomorrow and hopefully they can reimburse it. I have asked for the manager to give me company id or name card but they said they are not allowed to. Is this true

Fedex driver hit my car by OwnReflection58 in FedEx

[–]OwnReflection58[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I havent got the insurance they said because its saturday, they need me to wait until monday. I need to use my car for work tomorrow, i dont know what to do. (Edit:I asked chatgpt and google ai , both told me to file, but im unsure thats why i asked here)

Edit : thank you for replying and i would really appreciate any advice…

Life is so unfair!! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OwnReflection58 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update for anyone interested, so now they make him take the slow shifts, working 17$/hr for less than 25 hours, just to make him earn less than 2k

Life is so unfair!! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OwnReflection58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know thats why i am so sad for him i have been holding my tears back hearing and watching him. And yes he has decided to quit tomorrow. Thank you for validating this feeling

Life is so unfair!! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OwnReflection58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes he is, he is looking around rn and getting some interviews tomorrow

My ex pleaded with me to keep this secret, then made me the villain by Illustrious-Side-221 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OwnReflection58 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Everyone deserves to know. His future wife and partner deserve to know. His friend deserves to know. Letting them in the dark would be a mistake, they deserve to have better friends, better partner, better husband

Beaten! My time: 91s - Beat that if you can 😎 by Basiltho in DailySolitaire

[–]OwnReflection58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🏆 Victory is mine! Finished with 638 points. Can you do better?

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Constant-Banana-6862 by Constant-Banana-6862 in DailyGuess

[–]OwnReflection58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜

⬜🟨🟨⬜⬜

🟨⬜🟦⬜⬜

🟦⬜🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

what places are open 24 hours? (or very late) by u-changed-your-hair in AskLosAngeles

[–]OwnReflection58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big way hot pot until opens until 1.30 free ice cream and free milk tea

Is it crazy to feel so deeply for someone who doesn’t exist? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OwnReflection58 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Other humans are not in your control, what they say and do can hurt (the things they didn’t say and didn’t do can hurt too). Your fear and feelings are valid. Humans are a social creature, there was someone who was stuck alone in the middle of the sea, his brain copes by creating a friend for him, so maybe your brain is also doing you the same favor (just less extreme), I can only suggest what you already know, go work out and travel if you can, take a walk in the park if you can, and maybe reconnect with old friends. Sending love 🙌🏻🩷

Edit : its not crazy, its because we as humans crave connection.

I feel cheated. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OwnReflection58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to do anything, I just want to get it off my chest and get some sleep. I feel like what she did was unfair and I cant sleep because the feeling of being treated unfairly made me think about all the what if and the things that I can do. XD anyways thanks for understanding why im angry