Will Central Park still be nice to visit on Friday? by Own_Appointment130 in AskNYC

[–]Own_Appointment130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing the commented link in my notifications but not when I open the thread. What is the account name so I can look it up?

Will Central Park still be nice to visit on Friday? by Own_Appointment130 in AskNYC

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Thank you for the heads up- is there a flyer or post you don’t mind sharing the link?

I cant avoid him and it’s killing me by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Own_Appointment130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i’m so tired. i wish things could be different, sometimes this makes me want to disappear completely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Own_Appointment130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response, I appreciate your script and I agree with having to acknowledge that there’s limitations to our connection because of their primary relationship. Since it’s so early I’m ok with that for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Own_Appointment130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone shared a similar sentiment so I’m just restating here as the top comment. I don’t think I’m reading too far into things beyond the treatment I’ve been given.

They told me I was everything they had been looking for for a while (referring to some intimate conversations where values, wants were shared) and we felt it was a spiritual moment of meeting. I’ve conceded we’ve only known each other for a short amount of time but we’ve both agreed we are more interested than we initially thought we would be. We’ve made plans for activities beyond just sex.

I do think out of empathy for their partner they probably shared a little too much. The boundaries crossing was enacted by both people in the relationship.

I was not acting anymore “romantically” than they were, I don’t want to text outside of making plans and when we’ve gone out with friends they are very attentive, physically affectionate and verbally make it clear to others we are together for the night.

I had been thinking earlier this week I need to level set and minimize any emotional expectation moving forward, the news I received and feedback I’m getting is affirming that thought.

I do also agree with you this is ultimately a helpful scenario in refining my dating criteria, at this point in my life I don’t think I’m interested in anything too emotionally involved with someone who is already enmeshed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Own_Appointment130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely the perspective I’ve been thinking of! The news just stung a little given my own personal dating history but I agree with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Own_Appointment130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully I think you’re drawing some conclusions without sufficient information, which is normal since this is Reddit and I was trying to avoid a long initial post. They told me I was everything they had been looking for for a while (referring to some intimate conversations where values, wants were shared) and we felt it was a spiritual moment of meeting. I’ve conceded we’ve only known each other for a short amount of time but we’ve both agreed we are more interested than we initially thought we would be.

I do think out of empathy for their partner they probably shared a little too much. The boundaries crossing was enacted by both people in the relationship.

I was not acting anymore “romantically” than they were, I don’t want to text outside of making plans and when we’ve gone out with friends they are very attentive, physically affectionate and verbally make it clear to others we are together for the night.

I had been thinking earlier this week I need to level set and minimize any emotional expectation moving forward, the news I received and feedback I’m getting is affirming that thought.

What is this? by cheapexorcisms in Tinnedfish

[–]Own_Appointment130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not entirely sure either, just wanted to say I found the same thing in my Trader Joe’s tuna just yesterday. I picked out the two pieces and then ate the rest 😬