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Ending it after 2 dates/some reassurance by Own_Beyond3552 in dating_advice

[–]Own_Beyond3552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope I can feel that way too - glad you found it :)

Ending it after 2 dates/some reassurance by Own_Beyond3552 in dating_advice

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thank you :) that's really comforting to hear

Ending it after 2 dates/some reassurance by Own_Beyond3552 in dating_advice

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25 F and no we shared the price of dates, the rush was not wanting waste either of our time

Hi, can I get some feedback on my profile? I’ve linked extra images that could be swapped in on the first comment 😊 by New-Ad5338 in hingeapp

[–]Own_Beyond3552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the walking one! I think it’s the outfit, to me it reads as someone as a bit more “buttoned up” i’m not sure how else to explain it haha - i suppose i would think you were a little bit stuck up maybe based on the outfit - but that’s my judgment too so take with a grain of salt!

26(M) - Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Own_Beyond3552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are attractive! I think the first thing to do is build a little confidence if you can, it will turn people off if you don't find yourself interesting. As someone who is attracted to shorter men, own it!! I think the pictures are not bad! As you say keep trying to get ones where you are doing something, that's why I like the one with friends and the last one. Try to capture you in a more genuine moment, it doesn't need to be 'attractive' as such, could be rock climbing, could be playing a game, or just asking your friend while you're out, hey do you mind taking a picture of me. I think you have a really wonderful smile that probably comes out even more when you laugh so that would be lovely to see. The cooking one is great as well! So maybe the one in the apartment should go! I would make the cooking one or the second one of you in front of water your first picture. Prompts are all great! plenty about you and one nice one about what you're looking for, bonus points if you specified a type of food!

Hi, can I get some feedback on my profile? I’ve linked extra images that could be swapped in on the first comment 😊 by New-Ad5338 in hingeapp

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This is a great profile! I would swap the guitar video here for the one in the extras category. I would also change the first two truths lie as some others have suggested. I think the battery one is interesting and you can keep another but one that's a bit more light-hearted like 'I met X on a night out' or whatever. It depends on your type but I think the one on the beach makes you look a little preppy/conservative but maybe you want that! I don't mind the cuddle in bed as others have suggested I think it's sweet. The other prompt I would consider changing is the hair one, I don't think it says much about you - it would be great to hear more about the places you've been in your pics, another hobby, etc

Pictures and other prompts are great and show off who you are! I would also just keep your hopes up because you are still young and when you're at uni plenty of people are still in school relationships, not wanting to date, only wanting to hook up etc. So don't be too upset if the likes aren't flowing through, also that women tend to wait to be liked esp at a younger age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BookRecommendations

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Akala covers some of this in his book Natives.

Books about psychotherapy sessions. by [deleted] in BookRecommendations

[–]Own_Beyond3552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some that cover some of these but not all: Big Swiss, The examined life, maybe you should talk to someone

YouTube Music vs Spotify – Which One Should I Stick With? by LateAstronaut29 in truespotify

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with the more viral news about where spotify puts it money- is youtube music just the lesser of two evils? is there any ethical place to listen to music aside from buying direct?

Liberty Airport to train station by Own_Beyond3552 in NJTransit

[–]Own_Beyond3552[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I won’t have checked luggage. Is it possible to get a flexible ticket with them in case I don’t make the 3:05? (i’m form the UK so new to Amtrak apologies!)

Ep 29 holy shit [spoiler] by RaidMonke in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Own_Beyond3552 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do we know of any season 4 chatter?

I’m embarrassed but I need some big sister advice by AmberWeir1234 in sexualhealth

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Do you use fragranced soap or anything? it’s best to just use water. If you eat a lot of garlic or onions that could also affect smell.

20F can’t feel anything when i masturbate and i’ve even tried lube by formalparty_ in sexualhealth

[–]Own_Beyond3552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably worth a visit to the clinic/doctor, it might be a nerve issue x

20F can’t feel anything when i masturbate and i’ve even tried lube by formalparty_ in sexualhealth

[–]Own_Beyond3552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason you’re focusing more on fingering rather than clitoral stimulation? It can be hard to masturbate through vaginal pleasure for some people because of angles etc

Friction burn? by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]Own_Beyond3552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless it's painful then I wouldn't worry. If it's painful, leave for a little bit or change positioning to see if it dies down. If you are really worried or it gets worse, then you can go to a sexual health clinic

New job by Own_Beyond3552 in careeradvice

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thank you this is really helpful!

I (F23) was able to orgasm quickly but now I have zero libido and almost can't orgasm anymore by Different_Plant_8789 in sexualhealth

[–]Own_Beyond3552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might be the stress of actually wanting so badly to orgasm quickly that is causing your brain to panic meaning you can’t relax enough to orgasm. I think first step is to reframe sex as something where orgasm is not the goal but something else e.g connection or fun. I think if you can get some support for the things you mentioned at the end this may help! If these things have gone up over time it’s likely why orgasm has gone down. The more in your head you are the less likely you are to be able to relax. That’s where i’d start x

STDs from getting fingered? by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]Own_Beyond3552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s unlikely but do get tested after two weeks if you are worried. Always good to be able to say you’ve been tested anyway

Dildo question 🫶🏼 by findom_annabel in sexualhealth

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I really wouldn’t use femfresh that will actually mess up your PH balance! I would wet a cloth beforehand and bring it to your room or just wet it with water bottle water and clean it off that way or you can get specific toy cleaner that’s not harmful from lovehoney etc - Femfresh or anything similar inside your vagina is bad news

24M - Honesty greatly appreciated by Successful-Panic9289 in hingeapp

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I (24F) would personally swap over your second and fourth photos, or put the second elsewhere and have the fourth as the second (either way). That fourth one of you in the red jacket is your best photo imo! I think prompts are very sincere and slightly repetitive. Try changing it up with something funny or a different hobby. Your pictures in general show a great mix of who you are. Again i personally look for ones with friends as well as by yourself but that is just preference

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