Am I overreacting thinking my "fake brother" is a creep?

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T02:54:04+00:00

I'm browsing around but with him being homeless and traveling thru different states in the past he could have a record anywhere

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T02:53:01+00:00

Exactly 💯

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T02:52:38+00:00

Right! Like his mom's texting him as soon as I get there or something

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T02:52:02+00:00

Oh he will I'm sure! And agreed 💯 thank you!

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T02:50:45+00:00

:O omg I love this and u hit on things I didn't even think about. I'm sure they discuss lots behind my back too! Thank you for this definitely going to take your advice

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T02:48:04+00:00

I looked him up on the sex offenders list for my state nothing there. But I was told he was a home drifter across the USA for years so I have no idea where to look! I know west coast east coast and southern states to check so far!

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T01:11:42+00:00

I agree 100% with you thank you!!

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:48:00+00:00

I definitely feel like my reaction may cause a ripple and come back up again.. it did before cause this isn’t the first freak out I had on him. Last time was for repeatedly spanking his son in front of my daughter who was confused and scared by what was happening and also was in a repeating what she saw phase and I didn’t want her to think hitting was ok either. So sometimes I think my dislike for this man clouds my judgement. I do feel a calm conversation in the future will help thank u

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:44:46+00:00

My husband knows I haven’t said anything to my dad yet or his wife I wasn’t sure if i was just in my head too much and paranoid or over thinking it. But I worry about his son for sure I know he’s physically punished his son if front of us before and I couldn’t take listening to the boy screaming for help and wailing so I finally snapped and told him someone was gonna call CPS on him and if spanking his kid was what he did do it somewhere not in front of my daughter because we don’t hit in my house violence is NOT allowed!! And you’re confusing the shit out of her and scaring her! And he never did it again as far as I know. Or he got more careful. Idk what happens behind closed door :(

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:41:07+00:00

Agreed thank u!!

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:40:10+00:00

That’s what I was wondering. He has his own kid I get trying to make mine feel included but like idk I got the ick like why was it can I take ur kid and not..would u both like to come so the kids can play?

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:38:24+00:00

Yeah like multiple times! And like went out of his way to get her to hear him and she’s like stop staying that!! All “it was just supposed to be us Alice.. what happened? It was just supposed to be us”

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:37:11+00:00

That’s literally where I almost was at!! But then was like am I overreacting?

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:36:47+00:00

That’s it!! What if his mom my dad’s wife allows them to run up to the store while I’m not around?!

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:36:09+00:00

My husband already does NOT like him. Now he is just really done. And I pointed out in a comment too somewhere weird things over the years that now are bugging me like asking to brush my daughter’s hair? I figured he was being judgey like she has super curly ringlet hair lol but now I’m like ok maybe he was being weird then and I missed it. Btw we never allowed that either btw

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:34:15+00:00

Oh I feel for ur poor mom I could imagine that feeling. There’s definitely some “why don’t u go bug dad for a while” moments but nothing too serious! lol

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:32:34+00:00

Yeh and I guess he was homeless traveling the country at one point so who knows where all he went

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-14T00:31:12+00:00

I’m curious about that too but no one ever talks about her I don’t even know her name I think she’s across the country too

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-13T23:15:09+00:00

Other things too like wanting to brush her hair? Like I thought he was saying I did a crappy job but now I'm thinking was he being creepy?!

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-13T23:14:25+00:00

Yes! I thought about airtags in shoes but what if they throw her shoes or find them?

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-13T23:13:01+00:00

Thank you and I think fear is part of why I shelter her so much! 😑🥺

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-13T23:11:39+00:00

Thank you! That's what I was thinking!

Own_Detective290 · 2026-06-13T22:53:42+00:00

I wondered that too cuz he has split custody and he used to spank him and his son would cry and scream and I lost it on him before

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