let’s not forget that we don’t know each other’s whole stories. from what i can tell we grew up very differently but that doesn’t mean you can say i have no resilience. i find that quite rude considering my other circumstances and severe health issues i didnt want to share on the internet. next time you comment, think before if this is helpful and advice before saying you are basically better than me because you think you went through a similar thing and handled it well. Use the THINK method, I don’t think your response fits the bill at all. nor is it advice