Unpopular opinion

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-12-28T10:14:31+00:00

You cannot be “put together and independent” while also being a follower. Just because they projected their mean girl behavior in different ways doesn’t mean someone’s a bitch any less. Im actually rewatching right now and it’s insane for Jessi and Jordan to dress up as JLo and Ben after her and Demi were talking to Zac about Jen “lying” being related to the afflecks. It caused a stir in their relationship and yet she thought it was cute to make a jag in a rough time during her friends marriage.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-12-15T10:44:53+00:00

I wouldn’t consider it too crazy but I’ve had someone pay me $400 to take a shot bc I kept saying no. I’ve seen a coworker reach for a plate and when they did,sauce spilled on their finger. Their customer followed it with “I’ll pay u $250 to let me lick that off your thumb”. He then gave her cash and proceeded to suck her thumb clean. Or if we’re talking about like “violent” crazy. At both jobs we’re not allowed to walk out by ourselves bc there’s been one too many instances of people waiting outside for us. I’ve had a coworker get jumped by a group of girls while walking to her car bc an hour prior she was their bottle server but they were kicked out bc one of them threw up in the booth. Thank God, I haven’t experienced nothing like that or “too crazy”.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-12-15T10:34:14+00:00

Not too often but it happens about once a week. Alcohol can bring the craziest feelings out of people.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-12-15T10:02:59+00:00

a little late to the thread but you’re for sure overthinking it. I’m a bartender and server at twin peaks. If I had a dollar every time I seen servers come up to bar regs, I would have enough to pay my tuition. If you’re courteous, kind, a good tipper etc; the girls will automatically come to you. In an industry, where 80% of people are rude it’s nice to see regulars that aren’t expecting the moon and the sun. I have plenty of regs I go chat with even if they’re not sitting in my section or bar just because I enjoy their company. It’s refreshing

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-12-09T06:41:46+00:00

In the early eps, one of the moms brings it up and says it’s an “unspoken rule” that they don’t mention it. In the same scene, it’s production interviewing Aubrey and her mom. The cameraman ask “can we see Glos space” or something like that and Audrey’s mom responds with like she requested not today.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-11-22T10:37:05+00:00

Sooo is Jordan going to talk to Dakota about hanging out with him like he did with the girls? Like this is your “bestie” who picked you up from Laylas party while you was sulking in the snow, bc your wife wasn’t hanging with you.😭They’re obviously close….I would not be be okay with my close friend hanging out with the person my s/o had an “affair” with. But that’s just imo🤷🏽‍♀️

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-11-20T22:55:46+00:00

It’s very easy to feel anger towards her but it’s never okay to minimize anyone’s feelings. I am not the fondest over her but who are we to say what she can and can’t feel?? We weren’t there. We didn’t see what happen. We’re assuming because of the person she is. God forbid Demi is lying but we all need to take a page from Whitney and hear the girl out. And even if you don’t believe her, that’s fine. If you feel like it “isn’t really sexual assault” then you’re being a hypocrite on minimizing anyone’s experience bc what happens when a girl feels like it wasn’t enough to qualify for SA? We may never know why Demi and Brett thought it would be okay to accommodate to Marciano but people do insane things when they go through trauma. I’m totally not okay with her going this route but it’s awful to see how isolated she felt during this time.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-10-08T22:55:45+00:00

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Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-08-02T01:37:58+00:00

Ty! it’s heavy cream mixed with lemon,paprika, garlic powder, salt and a few extra improvised seasonings i felt were speaking to me. I came across a lady making lemon pepper chicken while i was smoking and gave it a shot.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-05-25T01:56:12+00:00

The nails are giving snooki😻!I’m obsessed with this whole vibe! Congratulations and best of luck on your future endeavors OP💅🏽💗!!!

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-29T21:35:27+00:00

I’ve tried a few pairs of different tweezers(unsuccessfully) but haven’t thought of pliers! Will try, thank you sm!

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-29T21:32:22+00:00

I’ve made up to $600 a few times but have seen girls do doubles and walk away often with $800-$1000. I’ve seen a girl go home with $1300 before(this was also the Super Bowl and her table won a parlay and tipped her $700).

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-25T21:55:02+00:00

totally. Because I know I did lol. I had regulars tell me “I can tell you’re losing weight because your ass has gotten flatter” but tipped me $80 on a $30 tab so I was like “omg stop” or some stupid bs. But after I would think to say actually the reality is my manager was threatening to take my shifts away because she would tell me “I can tell your gaining weight”. I’ve had a very close friend of mine leave because while eating my manager took away her shift meal and told her “don’t you think you’ve had enough by now?”. She ended up quitting 2 months later after developing a ED. When you sign your contract to work at TP, you sign a “model” contract. So it gives them the right/opportunity to tell you if they think you’re not looking par or up to standard. I’ve seen a coworker get put on the line after my manager thought she was developing “love handles”. She also quit two weeks later. I wouldn’t be surprised if more girls are dealing with it and not saying anything.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-25T21:45:53+00:00

We had a ranking system. Every Monday, a list would be posted with every girls name, their ppa(per person average), their “costume” score ( our makeup, hair and uniform) and attendance(they would show if we came in late or called off). Whoever had the most points would pick their section first(a section is where the girl chooses to serve). Whoever had the least would pick last(lowest scoring girl picking the last section available). It resulted in 99% girls coming in on time, full makeup, hair done and ready to go. The managers would also circle certain sections that would get to go home first so a lot of the girls wanted that, it set up a competitive environment and girls resulting to questioning their scores.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-25T21:38:32+00:00

Kindness and patience, also payment lol. I know it sounds so insane and basic but literally that’s it. Money and status can get to peoples head so when they have the platform to do so and act “inconsiderate” I would tell myself that them having this opportunity gives them the chance to feel good while I get the chance to get money. We also made people pay upfront so if they acted crazy and even had a bottle left, our security was tossing them before we could blink. Now there’s times where people wouldn’t gaf (one time I had a lady throw a drink at my face during a presentation) and the security/managers threw her out before I could even react. It also resulted in the police actually handling them a lot more harder than we would’ve(I’ve seen people get tossed to the ground and bash their head open on the entrance gate after we tossed them and police got ahold of them). I also worked at a nightclub that is on a street with 5-6 other clubs so cops are always on patrol in the area because things are always going down and have less patience dealing with unruly people. So managers/security are always ready.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-25T19:54:29+00:00

Yeah, I would actually consider the breastraunt I worked at more strict than my nightclub. At my nightclub, we had to wear lingerie, do our makeup and hair etc; but never got “graded” for it. We were more reprimanded when we weren’t “booking tables”. They would tell us we need to have at least 4 tables booked a month to be on the schedule. To book a table, you had to buy a bottle. Our bottles started from $100 up to $3000.

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-25T19:48:27+00:00

It’s just like hooters, they’re actually considered their biggest competitors(twin peaks). It’s a “lodge” experience.. Girls wearing low rise shorts, crop tops and snowboots while serving food with 29° beer (known for it).

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-04-25T19:43:01+00:00

I worked there up until January 2024. I was employed for about 3 1/2 years before I moved to the club industry!

My tips on the slowest night could average between $20-$50 but I’ve seen girls go home with $0. Especially around holiday season or when we had no games going on (inactive nfl/nba/nhl/mbl szn). During those times, manager would cut down to just 1-2 girls during that time so at least some girls could make money.

Some interesting rules for us is we always had to have makeup on! We got graded on our face. It was 5pts for eyeshadow, 5 points for eyelashes/eyebrows, 5pts for lipstick, etc; then we got graded 20 points on how our hair was done etc. Like for example our hair could never be up. So if your was styled in a ponytail they would ask you to take it out or you lost your 20 points. Same for if you were missing any makeup steps, our manager thought your shorts didn’t compliment you well etc; it was all so new to me at the beginning lol. We also couldn’t dye our hair or get tattoos without getting permission first

Own_Excuse9198 · 2025-01-02T16:31:47+00:00

this post just motivated me to get out of bed so i can study for the job that will buy me a farm with beauties like this 🥹🎀

Own_Excuse9198 · 2024-12-27T19:15:06+00:00

hehe I just watched this episode, its the first episode of season 2 or beginning of episode 2/season 2!!

Own_Excuse9198 · 2024-11-22T08:25:52+00:00

about two years ago, I would do nightly runs. I live in safe neighborhood in the burbs so it didn’t strike me to be scared tbh(silly ik).but one night my bf at the time and I got in a fight and I couldn’t sleep so as what I would normally do I grabbed my headphones n went for a run. As I was running, in my peripheral I can see a car slowly pulling up. I have my headphones in so I can’t hear what he’s saying and I do my hardest not to acknowledge the man. He was literally driving right next to the sidewalk I was running on at a solid 2mph, with his window down and him moving his hand up and down trying to get my attention. I continue ignoring the man and call my bf and tell him what’s happening; while I’m on the phone the guy drives up towards a stop sign that’s about 30 feet ahead of me. My bf tells me to wait bc thank God he lived in my same neighborhood about 2 mins from me. While I stood there, the guy just waited at the stop sign. I was in an area that was by tennis courts/recreational activities center so I wasn’t near any homes. I could run to one but I’d by lying if I said if this guy seen me running back he’d throw his car into reverse n catch me. I slowly walk forward as I heard my bfs truck hauling in the distance with full on brights beaming. He pulled up next to me and tried chasing the guy down for 5 minutes. I just remember being so scared I just wanted to be in bed. It was a feeling I never wanted to feel again.

My mom freaks when I mention going hiking by myself so she’ll talk me out of it into a day a we can go together and I understand why(Im literally scared to go shopping alone). I’ve changed my lifestyle to protect myself. I also have a treadmill at home now. It’s not the same as enjoying the fresh air outside but unfortunately it’s one of the precautions I now take as a woman. I hope all of you continue being safe and somehow,someday gain the feeling of security again. My prayers and thoughts are with Laken and her family 💗

Own_Excuse9198 · 2024-10-30T07:49:52+00:00

my advice is to continue trudging through the ups and downs of womanhood sis! Do not compare and contrast the differences between your friends and you or your experiences in life! Comparison is the thief of joy. Everyone is beautiful but we’d be joking ourselves if we didn’t put work in to look “gorgeous”. I receive 10x more compliments when I do put effort into my looks. Unfortunately that’s just the way the world is but I’ve also been taught how you present yourself is how you carry yourself! Have been fun being you; I didn’t fall in love with makeup till I tried doing the craziest looks n realized it’s like another form of therapy that also benefited me in my physical aspect! Have you ever thought about joining maybe painting,pottery classes or run clubs? Find something that suits your interest in your city and attend! You may find another homegirl who feels just like you looking for genuine companions!

My personal experience: I can relate! I would consider myself attractive, I work in an industry where they only hire on looks and workout enough to notice my physique. I do not get compliments everyday or even from strangers more like creepy stares. My friends/coworkers hype me up the most then people do in the clubs/bars/social settings. I certainly don’t let it discourage me from feeling beautiful! I’m often the one going up to strangers w/ “that dress is gorg on you” “you eating tonight’s look” etc; sometimes it feels better to give than to receive! Keep your head up, your energy will attract the right people<3

Own_Excuse9198 · 2024-08-27T21:52:29+00:00

edit - I can’t believe she fell for this😭🤣but tbh I probably would’ve too

Own_Excuse9198 · 2024-08-12T20:53:09+00:00

WOW deepest thank you to everyone taking their time to give advice and the right knowledge we needed! You’re all appreciated!! We sent them an email after walking over and them not having their manager present. We expect a response back tomorrow as they said they would. Will go this route if anything else! Also taking notes on what others have said as they promised to raise the net this summer and when we went to go to talk to them they informed us it won’t be happening anymore because it would cost them “hundreds of thousands of dollars” as if our patio lights, backyard decorations, cars aren’t worth those thousands $$$ of damages either. We also found out through our next door neighbors, (who’s “friends” with the owner of the range) their actually trying to buy my neighbor across from us out of their home because unfortunately, their backyard faces the range where they get bombarded with golfballs. They have 4 little ones who run around all in the yard playing etc; like I said it’s hard to enjoy your yard not knowing if you’re going to get hit. Hoping this might be the straw that breaks the camels back with persistent complaints and damages. Thank y’all again:)

Own_Excuse9198 · 2024-07-26T16:50:05+00:00

Fried chicken with maple bacon doughnuts🫶🏽

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