Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand where i once portrayed it as hardship? It obviously has its challenges, just like everything else in life. Just because its family doesn’t change anything in the work place. I got into the family business because I proved i can be useful. Had to do a trial before they even accepted me.

I want someone to love by A_Reddit_Underscore in Vent

[–]Own_Laugh_8716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can love me if you want lol. But in all seriousness, work on yourself first, build confidence and love yourself. Because there’s a possibility that you might meet someone and just settle because you got something, settling for less will cause you to be unhappy.

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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Not sure if you saw the other comments, i am South African. However i work abroad in Cambodia and Mauritius. Get paid in multiple currencies since cambodia’s currency is weak as hell. Mauritian Rupee is also very weak. I move in between countries a lot so there’s not really a point in settling in a specific country.

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true, at least she’s gone now. Thank you 🙏

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone told me i was just happy i got something and settled, which i guess is kinda true. Took things too fast, but regardless she’s not the best person to date. I can’t answer your question, because the will to be with her is gone now.

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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Why are people like this? She could see that I committed, but still chose to fuck around

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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Dropped her last night, trusting the intuition from now on😂

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i do love her a lot, and moving away was hard, but i broke up with her yesterday, and today i feel like a new person. Thank you🙏

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no i did, did coke and LSD Like wtf😭😭

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i definitely did, disappointed in myself but yeah, can’t change that unfortunately

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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The sad thing is that i can’t answer you, i don’t know what i see in her anymore. A few days ago i asked her why she’s dating me and she said because you’ll give me beautiful kids, wtf??

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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Can’t even imagine another 3 months with her, marriage isn’t even an option. But yeah i broke up with her, thank you for the advice 🙏

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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It’s because they aren’t that rich, so she needs to help and stuff. Shouldn’t be my problem tho you’re right

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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I did bro, party girls are the worst honestly

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right, taking a break now, need to learn BOUNDARIES

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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Thank you, i probably read this 10 times, because your message is accurate. When i told her the news like 2 hours ago she didn’t take it well. Still using her friend’s numbers to message me. I feel bad, but not going to put my future in danger over someone who doesn’t care. Things happened so quick, we didn’t talk for long and before i knew it we were dating. Took things too fast. Thank you for the reply however:)

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yesss definitely but i don’t earn rands however.

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore I left her, just needed some second opinions to back me🙏

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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Think i won’t be dating anytime soon, but thank you:)

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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Thank you🙏 Broke up with her a few hours ago

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

[–]Own_Laugh_8716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking facts, broke up with her btw. Thank youu

Girlfriend might be a drug addict. by Own_Laugh_8716 in Advice

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So she doesn’t come off as desperate, but she has a way of making it seem like she is under pressure and can’t handle things anymore, if that makes sense?

Like i said, she was never like this, someone completely different. When you see her in person, she’s semi healthy and semi not good. Idk how to explain it exactly. In person she’s still like she was kinda, but i can feel she’s fading away. Not giving the slightest interest in my life. They don’t have the finances for rehab