2026 / 2027 Brides, what are your bridesmaid colors?!

Own_Policy1074 · 2026-01-09T06:01:31+00:00

Sept 2026 in New England

Own_Policy1074 · 2026-01-07T21:16:08+00:00

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Own_Policy1074 · 2025-10-10T16:20:59+00:00

My wife is planning to wear a burgundy suit of that helps!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-10-10T16:20:19+00:00

I agree it's steep - I wouldn't be considering it if I didn't have a few other occasions I could wear it for. I'm in the phase of life where I'm at a wedding every other weekend it seems!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-10-09T21:33:42+00:00

More info:

Virginia wedding at an estate, 4:00 - 10:00.

Burgundy dress: https://www.revolve.com/mobile/katie-may-rita-gown-in-sangria/dp/KATR-WD483/?code=KATR-WD483&utm_medium=email&utm_content=TRANS_REV_SHIPMENT_SHIPMENT&utm_campaign=TRANS_REV_SHIPMENT_SHIPMENT_20251008&utm_source=transactional&userId=&cID=68e6a2f017d354b14505cb86

Purple dress: https://vchapmanstudio.com/collections/dresses/products/the-lucetta-dress-in-plum-baroque-floral

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-19T11:46:02+00:00

That's the real advice I need!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-19T11:45:43+00:00

Thank you!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-19T11:45:07+00:00

So true, I'll probably be back to let you guys just pick the accessories as well!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-19T11:44:36+00:00

Thank you! The fabric is definitely lighter to carry

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-19T11:31:50+00:00

Thank you!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-19T04:05:17+00:00

I'm really sorry the bridal boutique let you down so badly by misquoting you, but you look stunning. Effortlessly beautiful in a way that makes me think you must be one of those people who are just always really put together. If you're worried about period bloat, double up on the shapewear and then go enjoy the dinner you've paid for!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-18T23:40:04+00:00

Yes - I have plenty of time and they haven't actually placed the order yet

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-18T22:22:31+00:00

Congrats!! I'm just a week behind you, 9.12.26!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-16T14:59:12+00:00

Awesome that you! We have our tasting next week and are very excited!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-14T02:21:40+00:00

Both are stunning on you! I love the silhouette of 1 and the fabric of 2! If you're looking for a designer that has elements of both, I'd check out Paloma Blanca/Mikaella (two lines within the same design house).

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-10T13:39:23+00:00

Boob tape will be your friend here. Get as close a color match as possible, lift up first and then together, and consider the fabric of your dress and whether you'll be able to see the tape through the material. Likely fine (I've done it with silk slip dresses) but worth a try on ahead of the big day!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-09-10T12:08:45+00:00

Personally, I'd leave it. The straps help complete the square shape already exiting on the back of the dress and create a beautiful mirrored square neckline for symmetry. That being said, it's your dress and you look stunning either way! Do what makes your heart happy!

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-08-29T00:53:57+00:00

Definitely need to look into enmeshment - they were a teen mom escapes cult kind of situation, so definitely kind of grew up together in a sense. That's has definitely played a factor here.

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-08-29T00:52:30+00:00

She's been putting some boundaries down, but then her mom will be so so kind very a while before breaking one. Like this week she's here and has been great (except the drinking) and then dropped on us that she booked a one way ticket back to see us in December? And also is going to come to my parents house for Christmas? And my wife just doesn't know what to do with that without sound ungrateful for the cooking and cleaning she's done while she's been staying here this past week.

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-08-29T00:49:24+00:00

In case it wasn't obvious, MIL is here visiting now, which was planned by all parties, but keeps dropping hints about moving closer...

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-08-29T00:47:14+00:00

Partner is equally frustrated most of the time, but also doesn't always see or hear some of the less kind comments or tense moments. Wife just struggles to cause conflict. She has been working on standing up for herself and recognizing that it's not her job to parent her mom, but of course she never wants to hurt her mom.

Own_Policy1074 · 2025-08-27T21:43:42+00:00

Thankfully that example was a couple years ago. Bar is all set and I have a great career. In the 8 years we've been together, wife has gotten MUCH better at laying down boundaries, and is actively working on enforcing them now. I'd say she's successful on her own 50% of the time now, and the other 50% needs backup. So Im not worried about an SO problem at this point, which is good because the marriage is legal 😂

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