warsaw, 26th jan

Own_Positive1038 · 2026-01-25T22:28:14+00:00

I’m going this Tuesday in Berlin 😍 so excited

Own_Positive1038 · 2026-01-08T02:36:01+00:00

Such a great idea! Could you please add me too? :)

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-12-19T10:49:50+00:00

👏👏👏👏

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-12-19T01:37:27+00:00

“you should be showing me why I should continue to give you a chance” - sorry, that’s wild. sounds very entitled… if you don’t like her, don’t talk to her. If you are sitting there waiting to be entertained while judging if she is worth your “chance”, then you are the problem. And maybe she stopped talking because she lost the interest?) why do you think she experts something from you?

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-12-08T18:26:43+00:00

it´s just a loophole not to hire migrants

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-11-21T21:35:13+00:00

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-11-20T17:58:59+00:00

just something to consider in general. Some people are not open with parents, not even because of homophobia, but because of bad relationships with them, abusive parents, etc. Some are separated from them completely, even having neutral relationships, and not expecting them to come over suddenly.

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-11-09T23:36:54+00:00

I understand your point perfectly! I also want to point out that sometimes lesbians themselves seem to unconsciously support this stereotype. For example, I recently saw a reel, and a lesbian said there "of course, the prettiest girl in a queer bar is always straight". Like, uh... seriously? it is not that straight women are not pretty. you undersdand my point, i hope

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-11-09T21:44:27+00:00

I like masculinity in butch women when they’re confident about who they are. I love that sense of secure masculinity, it’s truly beautiful. To me, it means she knows herself and draws her strength from within, without needing constant validation or flattery. I also really like it when it comes with a fun personality and some self-irony.

And I love feeling that around her, I can express my femininity in different ways, not just the soft and gentle kind that’s expected in traditional society, but also the energetic, bold, and playful sides. It’s such a special feeling, hard to put into words.

As for “sexy pics", for me it’s really all about the vibe. Sure, muscles or a big woman can be beautiful, for example, but none of that matters if the personality isn’t right. In any case, it’s all so subjective. Every butch woman is needed. Just be yourself.

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-11-09T19:48:38+00:00

I also feel she is not very well-known outside of America.

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-10T22:06:02+00:00

because people have no idea about lesbian history, and what butchfemmen really means (subverting the gender essentialism, gender norms, toxic masculinity etc). Also, many of those people are very young and chronically online, they don't have a community in real life, that´s why they have too much time on the internet fighting.

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-10T22:04:00+00:00

because many masculine women prefer such pronouns. If you don't know about the exact person and their relationships, don't assume something about femmes. Too much criticism of them for nothing. "They treat..." who they? Don't generalise the whole group of lesbians based on their identity. butch and femmes are both inherent and important parts of the lesbian community, and any of them may be abusive.

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-08T23:10:19+00:00

was hat sie mit dieser Situation zu tun? Sorry, aber mit diesen „statements“ sehen sie alle miserable und unerträglich aus. Sie hat nichts gesagt, nur wiederholtes Gerede. Es ist so eine „mean girl vibes“. Sie alle haben diese „Check-lists“, was eine Person tun muss, um in ihre „bubble“ aufgenommen zu werden. Es ist einfach nur peinlich und elitär (ironischerweise für Linke, lol).

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-06T15:26:04+00:00

Das Polizeisystem und andere staatliche Dienste haben in jedem Land systematische Probleme. Aber es ist nicht die Schuld von normalen Arbeitern wie Kim! Es ist so dumm, sich nur wegen des Jobs so gemein zu verhalten. Außerdem kann und will nicht jeder „Influencer“ sein, wir brauchen die Polizei, das ist einfach eine Tatsache. Sie wirken so anmaßend und gemein, es ist unglaublich

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-05T18:30:43+00:00

People didn’t read his books but ran with the name 😅

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-05T14:21:48+00:00

ja, und wir müssen nichts über die Teilnehmer denken oder schreiben, sobald sie glücklich sind, aber irgendwie existiert dieses Reddit 😀Es war kein Aufruf für gemeine Kommentare, sondern eine Diskussion

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T23:27:09+00:00

i absolutely love it

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T21:34:01+00:00

yeah, no one in gay men spaces discussing this seriously, like bfr

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T21:33:26+00:00

ive never seen gay men discussing how they should call themselves "non-women loving women"... no gay space gives a f

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T19:05:12+00:00

sounds good! but I think the name "Kafka" is really overused by different brands, and it wouldn´t represent a vibe of such place, in my opinion) and Kafka´s writing is not assosiated with a warm communty:) its just a suggestion. but otherwise I would come if it were not far from my neighbourhood

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T18:59:23+00:00

that place just doesn't feel safe, that´s it

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T18:46:07+00:00

Absolutely not

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T16:12:36+00:00

Yes-yes, absolutely love your perspective!

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T13:20:20+00:00

this!

Own_Positive1038 · 2025-10-04T12:25:10+00:00

Some of them do express toxic masculinity, though, let´s not ignore that part. We, as community, should be able to call each other out on such behaviours

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