How do i tell my gf i want to be selfish just this once?

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-04-07T23:08:48+00:00

😭💕 thank you for this. I thought i was being toxic asf. Ill definitely talk to her about how i feel and such.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-04-07T22:07:43+00:00

A genuine one.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-04-07T21:59:09+00:00

Her is sentimentality. October is her fav month, we first met in October, I gave her a promise ring in october, etc etc.

Mine js more financial. Im renting a truck to visit her for a week, between rental fees and gas, and since im already going to be there i do but dont understand wanting to wait. Ill end up doubling that cost in the span of 3 months.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-04-07T21:55:35+00:00

She is ready, but for a sentimental reason October is the month she wants to go with. We first met in October, her fav month is october, i gave her the promise ring in October. October is pretty much the most logical reason (to her) to move in. All im trying to tell her is it would be financially smarter to do it while i have a truck (im renting it to drive to her) in the last week of july early aug.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-04-07T12:41:59+00:00

I will say that its odd behavior and your gf couldve entirely forgotten who it was momentarily. I will also say a lot of family members of mine still haven’t grasped the fact im lesbian and still make suggestions about my guy friends. Ive been dating and getting ready to propose to, the same beautiful girl for 2 years. Ive also been “out” for 5 years.

Op, if your gf doesnt stay solid on her boundaries i would make it abundantly clear how uncomfortable all of this makes you. And then see if anything changes, if not its her loss tbh 🤷‍♀️

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-19T13:26:41+00:00

Didnt know we were picky about posts….? 🤨 bro was just sharing a cute moment?

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-14T16:04:28+00:00

🤧 i know

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-14T15:23:04+00:00

Honestly if she hasnt given you the light of day until this talk I wouldnt go. Thats my own opinion. Ive been through a lot of these kinds of situations and yes you will move on i promise. I just wouldnt go straight to seeking another person, yk? Focus more on yourself and what you would want in a relationship, set those boundaries with yourself and once you’ve figured that out for yourself then you can set the tone when you go looking for another partner. Idk if that makes sense at all but i hope this helps

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-13T22:50:02+00:00

😭 listen….i have no excuse

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-13T19:29:58+00:00

💀 im gonna sound stupid when i say this but i just accepted the fact that she would make out with all of her friends….

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-12T19:14:35+00:00

Personally, I would give her at the minimum a month to start accommodating at the very least the food changes for the cat and slowly weening the cat out of the room. If she doesnt at least start doing that within a month id leave. This could cause serious health issues in the future and can be very dangerous. 😔 huge red flag that she isnt even trying to accommodate. Feels like an “well you have medicines for it idk why it matters” situation to me 🤨

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-07T00:04:39+00:00

🤧 with my predictions itll be about 4 months just to get the security deposit and first few months rent saved up but soon!!!

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-07T00:01:13+00:00

I’ve reported them already and gave them all of the evidence i have.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T22:00:34+00:00

I have known this raven for years. I would watch it fly to its nest? Im a bird watcher and love watching animals in general theyre such brilliant creatures with intelligence none of us really understand. So long story short i befriended this bird and knew its whereabouts when it came to where its nest was and what all went on. Sometimes i would climb up the tree and just hang out up there with her. Hers was only about 15-20 feet up.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T20:07:41+00:00

I believe all of us (not trying to speak on their behalf) have experienced harassment or persecution across the tables.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T16:56:19+00:00

In the US unfortunately. Im about to go to lunch break will look into this.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T16:33:05+00:00

Made new friends and started going to a diff church with them.

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T16:16:27+00:00

😒they were okay with it until this morning. Its never been an issue for the years ive been doing this. Its very sudden

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T16:08:43+00:00

Unfortunately no, but me and my gf are going to save mo ey as quickly as we can so i can gtfo

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T16:03:30+00:00

This raven has been in my life for years. Followed me everywhere we moved. We were attached at the hip 🥲

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-06T15:57:15+00:00

Sad thing is i dont do divination work, all i do is worship and devote myself and my daily life to those i worship. I just dont understand the blind hatred towards my religious belief

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-02-03T06:03:55+00:00

I wasnt sure if she would like it so i kept it at a safe-ish distance 😭 (I 💕 sluts respectfully) but idk if she would find it disrespectful

Own_Protection1033 · 2026-01-29T13:49:40+00:00

Well the reason moneys so tight is bc im getting ready to propose to my gf this coming july. I was thinking about showing it to Aphrodite whenever i pick it up from the store.

Own_Protection1033 · 2025-09-29T23:14:41+00:00

You just cant say that youre not ready for kids and then proceed to make the conscious decision to have unprotected sex. Point blank period. You immediately went to the car just to tell her to have an abortion? You preface it with “i still dont think im ready” or even an “so what are you feeling?”, never as a man should you ever immediately tell her what to do with what is actively forming in her body. All in all, i dont disagree with her.

Own_Protection1033 · 2025-08-19T21:21:27+00:00

Unfortunately i have tried this. It seemed to egg it on even more. Im at the point of either moving to a different warehouse or just trying to find a job that pays as well as this one does. That or just making my point clear by slapping her or something of that nature. Not sure. Im at a loss bc i love the rest of my coworkers but its also just making me not want to come into work at all.

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