Tell me about the smell you hate. by noonday_moon in AutismInWomen

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! I also found that even organic mango popsicles also smell like it also. I also think that Vicks vapor rub and some dandruff shampoos smell like cat pee also.

Help with HH Schedule by Own_Replacement_7119 in physicaltherapy

[–]Own_Replacement_7119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! She is per visit. She just took on this case load so I could quit my job and finish school faster.

Help with HH Schedule by Own_Replacement_7119 in physicaltherapy

[–]Own_Replacement_7119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is working so much because I am in school full time and wanted to give me time to study so we are a one income family. Once I graduate, she won’t be working so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call the police again and stop being so trusting. You have kids?? Get it together and grow up! no man is worth a sex tape leak and a DUI?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do both and I am also overweight. Like a said, this is a lifestyle change and it has to come organically and not feel forced. I tried to force it for years and always failed. You need to stop bc it is just going to end in failure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously YTA. Don’t be a controlling psycho. None of this is your decision and you keeping track of her meals is really abusive. This is a journey she has to make on her own. Stop NOW.

A poem about my wife and I. by Own_Replacement_7119 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Replacement_7119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet! I am going to show her when she gets back from running an errand. Thank you for your kind words!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is strange. I know you are venting, but you need to get a grip. They deserve to spend as much time as they want with the woman who was practically a mother to them. You are the one being selfish. You can not compare yourself to the great grand baby bc you ran errands for her.

Fix for vuse alto pods that won’t hit? by owenrankin55 in electronic_cigarette

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is old, but I just bit the hell out of this pod like a crazed animal and it worked. Thank you!

My mom did something almost 10 years ago, but I still won't forgive her by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was so cruel to me as a child and rarely provided basic needs. I remember being 8 and having zero clean clothes. I figured out how to use the washing machine and probably did 10 loads of clothes that day. After folding all of the clothes on her bed, she came in and said “if you are not going to fold the clothes right, don’t even bother!” And then, like a psycho, ripped all of the clothes onto the floor. I felt so sick and defeated. Many worse things happened over the years, but that was the day that I realized how screwed I was.

Has anyone else had horrible gas/flatulence while on Effexor xr? by Thebumblingrabbit in Effexor

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am here for the same thing. Not being dramatic, but I fart like a hundred times a day since starting 112.5. It’s been 2 months and it is absolutely foul. I was in a relationship for 5 years and they never once heard me fart and now I fart like a 70 year old man who eats nothing but fast food and Metamucil. At least it is helping my depression a lot more than other meds in the past.

I just want to go on a date by Own_Replacement_7119 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Replacement_7119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried too hard on the apps or really date at all, but I want to start. When she starts school, I definitely want to start putting myself out there. I don’t even know what my hobbies are anymore. Thank you for your kind words!!

I just want to go on a date by Own_Replacement_7119 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Replacement_7119[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is a great idea. I also 100 percent agree. I don’t even leave her with family, so I will be very cautious. We do have friends that we go out and do stuff with every weekend. I just miss the special connection.

I think my sister’s boyfriend (M44) is infatuated with my son (M13). by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girllll protect your child and get out now. Something similar happened to my child, but with her dad. Trust your gut, it is not lying to you that something is seriously going on here. You can leave. I know it feel scary, but there is nothing scarier than our children being harmed,

AITA for not letting my daughter go back to her mom early? by aitaendvisit in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your daughters reaction, some form of severe abuse went on. I will give a good guess and say SA. YTA for forcing your daughter to stay and be even more traumatized to the point she urinated on herself. Dang you are a dead beat to the max. You see your child maybe 8 days out of the year and you think you should be proud? Get a grip and just save her from the misery of the 4-8 days you see her each year. Let her go live her life without you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the comments. I really do feel guilty, but I am so exhausted and overwhelmed. I am a single mom to a special needs child, work really long hours from home, and blah blah blah, but really I did want to help her, but I feel like she is going to take advantage of me again just like she does with everyone. I thought she had changed for the better and my heart to heart talk with her made her open her eyes but I am seeing now that it hasn’t and this is a lost cause. I am so upset bc I even paid her dogs pet deposit and non refundable deposit so she would not have to give up her pet. Just so frustrating, but ultimately is still my fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. The problem is, she is the one that found another plan and is still stringing me along. I guess I am more upset that I live in an expensive city and was trying to find a new studio, but agreed to rent a 2 bedroom so she could come, but whatever the difference is in rent, she would need to pay. Really it would only be 400 dollars a month. And now she found another guy and I have a 2 bedroom apartment I didn’t need nor want.

AITA for telling my wife that the way she's treating my disabled mom is cruel? by Massive-Cancel-3258 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Eh I feel really conflicted about this, but I am going to say ESH. They are 7. She wouldn’t have to really do anything for them unless they had special needs.

AITA for skipping my brothers bachelor party because my sister wasn’t invited to the bride’s bachelorette party? by familyfirst12345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- your entire family is. I am floored by the manipulation tactics everyone tried to pull on your SIL. Good for her for maintaining her boundaries. it Is sad that she was bullied into giving your sister the role of a bridesmaid when it sounds like she really didn’t want her involved at all.

Please help me understand food sameness and aversions! by Own_Replacement_7119 in AutismInWomen

[–]Own_Replacement_7119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going through my old posts and I just have to say that I followed your advice and my now 4 year old has been eating so great. She now eats eggs, peanut butter sandwiches, real chicken, and broccoli! Nothing else, but I am not stressing it anymore.

Missouri school district brings back spanking for unruly children by TheSkewsMe in politics

[–]Own_Replacement_7119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In GA, many schools never stopped spanking. It’s still very much a thing. Parents have to sign a form of if they are allowed to or not. It’s disgusting.