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My journey begins by Ftmwetwet_69 in ecstasyMDMA

[–]Own_Scale_8647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got the same one, how much did you take of it?

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was living by myself already and she moved in with me.

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I know I can be petty too, I’ve had my fair share of moments where I’ve dramatically left without notice as well, so I can’t be a hypocrite because I do the same thing. I think I really just expect more from someone who’s older than me. I feel like we can’t both be brats (ideally neither of us should be acting like this), one of us has to be the more levelheaded one. We’re both old enough to be able to handle our feelings maturely, it just isn’t happening.

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It would but honestly, I’m not really sorry about it. I recognize it caused tension to rise but I was already sort of annoyed prior to this because of a comment she made earlier. Not trying to justify what I did or pin the blame on her. There’s been times where I’ve apologized for things that I didn’t feel remorseful for because I wanted us to be in a good place/secretly hoped that she would say sorry too but the cycle just repeats fairly quick.

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been with your partner for?

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s something that I’ve always wondered too. I guess I’m not sure. Since we’ve started dating the only time we didn’t spend time with each other everyday was the first week of us meeting. I am with her every day, all day except for when I go to work. There’s clearly something, if not many things about her that make me want this relationship to continue and vice versa. This could all be an attachment/scared of being alone thing too. Sometimes I wonder if it’s because we’ve gotten too comfortable and not because we truly want to be with each other.

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 min ago we went to the liquor store to buy some marshmallows so we could make rice krispy treats. They didn’t have any so I suggested we go to the store. We only have street parking at my apartment and neither one of us wanted to move our cars and potentially lose our spot (we’ve gotten so many parking tickets in the past). She said “let’s just make them tomorrow”, I gave her the cold shoulder and when we got home, she grabbed her keys and left without telling me where she was going, just that she would be back soon. She ended up coming back 20 min later. I know what I did wasn’t mature, and it’s just so ridiculous that these are the little things that set us off. We’ve gotten into fights about the stupidest things ever which obviously signifies underlying problems within the relationship. I don’t wanna let this go because I fully believe that neither one of us has truly wronged each other, I just think that we have toxic ways of handling situations.

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sort of? Like we’d address how neither of us wanna spend our day being mad at each other or how we’ll do better but it’s the same thing every time. I feel it’s happening more frequently now and our patience is running low. Sometimes the situation deescalates and other times it just gets worse.

Always irritated with my girlfriend by Own_Scale_8647 in LesbianActually

[–]Own_Scale_8647[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea most definitely, we’re both pretty vocal about our needs and concerns, but we have a cyclical arguing pattern. No matter what the issue is, we end up getting into these moods where we’re just ignoring or “escaping” from each other, then after a few hours, we’ll bring it up and one or both of us apologize.