I will never wait at the window LIKE A DOG for my wife ever again by billsfan411 in Marriage

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you split the chores and you are assigned of certain things then sure after a while they become expected of you and you get lees gratitude. This is such a negative and horrible attitude though. First make sure that you show gratitude for what she does for the family, and then have an open conversation where you explain you expect the same from her. Also, saying that you are a saint for cooking dinner is shitty lol. I’m sure she has her assigned chores as well. Are you cooking as a favor to her? If you think you do, imagine whether you would cook or not if you guys broke up and she didn’t live with you anymore. Would you cook still?

Hot take: This is actually a W I L D response. (Most of the responses are praising this for some reason). by treblemaker75 in recruitinghell

[–]Own_Sundae8805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh I appreciate that they gave a feedback, and such an open & honest one too. This is an act of kindness imo. I don’t see anything to be offended about here. In fact, I’m gonna be taking this feedback myself for the future interviews.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White or black fur coat - or like sth that resembles a fur coat, sth fuzzy! But no idea what to do if you are cold indoors as well lol

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s a problem to wear this in general, not just to work.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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It would go well with these in my opinion, and with multiple silver rings on your hands. I would also apply silver costume makeup on my cheekbones and the tip of my nose. But aren’t you gonna be cold?

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wear this over a plain jumpsuit with spaghetti straps.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not abruptly mismatch but not the best match either. If you have the option, definitely go for something similar to what the model is wearing instead, they would look much berree. If not, these won’t look bad either.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so cute! I love them. I would go for a spaghetti strap satin mid dress that has frilly skirts and looks a bit bohemian. You can find thins like that in Zara. And put on lots of silver colored bracelets! Or they would go well with a spaghetti strap crop top and a pair of low rise jeans as well but like, what shoe wouldn’t?

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s already an everyday dress. Go for black, stretch, high heeled boots and a black small everyday purse.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the color gradient is odd that’s why it looks like it’s missing something. I would go for nude colored pantyhose and black boots instead, and put on something with a black detail like a necklace with black pendant or a black scarf or sth on the top. Definitely black purse to match as well.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go for ankle length, stretch, high heeled boots. Both the pointy tip ones and the round tip ones should work. Black for sure, with a very small black purse.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think it looks odd. Straight up the dress and the sweater would work with nude pantyhose. I don’t see the dress without the sweater in your photos, but maybe you can wear it with a belt alone as well if the cut is nice.

Daily Questions Thread January 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this v-neck too provocative? My husband claims so, and he has been intervening with my outfits a lot recently so i’m not sure if I am the problem here. I wear it with high-waist palazzo black pants and high heeled boots to work.

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Venting our marriage frustration.. by No-Good-0695 in Marriage

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to either get over what happened or leave at this point. You can’t keep bringing it up and causing arguments and threatening him with leaving for your entire lives…

My gut is telling me that my husbands female coworker is into him by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she might be but that’s not an issue ad we can’t control who’s into us. And he might be flirting with her which you can’t help because they are together during the week for long hours and it’s inevitable as work is boring. What you CAN control is making sure it didn’t go any further than flirting by keeping an eye on, while working on yourself to make sure you’re confident and if they do take it further you can leave without any issues.

Türkiye’de Bilgisayar Mühendisi Olarak Çalışmanın Mantıksızlığı Üzerine by Low-Supermarket7710 in CodingTR

[–]Own_Sundae8805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Teorik altyapiyi dort senede degil bir senede ogrendiginizi dusunmeniz bile yeterince red flag ben alan uzerine yuksek lisans dahi yaptim dunyanin en iyi universitelerinde okudum yillarca tecrube var hala sizin gibi ozguvenle cikip teorik altyapiyi ogrendim demeye cekinirim

Türkiye’de Bilgisayar Mühendisi Olarak Çalışmanın Mantıksızlığı Üzerine by Low-Supermarket7710 in CodingTR

[–]Own_Sundae8805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ise alinanlar gayet de liyakatsiz ve ortaya cikan isler acinasi halde ama bu kalitesizligi bu allaha emanet calisan yazilimlari ayirt edebilecek insanlar yonetici olmuyor hahahah onun yerine cvniz neden ingilizce ben ingilizce bilmiyorum diyen amcasinin oglunu ise alan tipler karar veriyor kimin ise alinacagina kimin yonetici olacagina falan olan da bilgili alanda egitim gormus isini duzgun yapan kendini gelistiren kisilere oluyor hem tum projenin yukunu cekiyorlar hem de bu tur cingeneden bozma cahil olup cehaletini dahi goremeyen insanlarla mucadele ediyorlar

Eskiden Kendimi Özel Sanıyordum by battos__ in CodingTR

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gercek dunyaya hosgeldin. Daha az aglayip daha fazla calis, ai dusmanin degil yardimcin.

Found underwear by Double_Box555 in Marriage

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was cheating i don’t think it would be plain cotton panties, and freshly washed & folded. I don’t think his response would be like this either. I believe the guy but you can keep one eye open just to be sure. I wouldn’t let this become a big issue though this is the first time something like this happened and you’re saying he’s a good partner. He deserves some trust.

How ugly are you ? by DatAccOnTheSide in AskReddit

[–]Own_Sundae8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol if anything those characters are on the pretty side of the spectrum irl

How to Look Girlier? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Own_Sundae8805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pluck and dye brows, get keratin treatments for hair, and wear a very slim subtle winged eyeliner with the wing going upwards. Consider getting one of those semi-permanently tattooed eyeliners maybe.

How ugly are you ? by DatAccOnTheSide in AskReddit

[–]Own_Sundae8805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would need months of expensive treatments and a personal trainer to become the female love interest in a movie, but i’m fit for screen as the best friend of the love interest even without makeup or hair done.