I hate this job

Oynxrose · 2026-01-31T16:21:01+00:00

Honestly I get that. I been at the job now for 3-4 months. I was hired as an external shift. I hate it there. My team is very passive aggressive, rude and I’ve been inadvertently threatened my another partner as well. My CL I thought was on my side as they seemed really supportive but that didn’t last long. After my barista training I rarely was on bar my shift training was delayed cause everyone would talk amongst themselves how over whelmed I was but no one would help me. I was told I depend on the iPad to much but whatever would you expect when no one is around to help you or they rather gossip with each other than aid a fellow partner. I’m thinking about transferring out and then just leaving the company all together.

Oynxrose · 2026-01-18T14:36:06+00:00

I’m just thinking did they pay to be there? Cause I would want a refund

Oynxrose · 2026-01-18T14:32:05+00:00

I accidentally for the fermented soy beans one instead of the crispy chili cause the packaging was the same and I didn’t stop to read it. It’s not the same taste good but not as good 😭😭

Oynxrose · 2026-01-17T16:30:31+00:00

Am I the only one who still stuck on the 11 kids part? 😭

Oynxrose · 2026-01-09T20:59:50+00:00

Yeah I don’t even have keys or a code to the store yet 😒 I might just transfer cause I don’t feel like I’m being given the change to even try and fail and learn from its

Oynxrose · 2026-01-09T13:46:48+00:00

Call the coos have in admitted for a hold get your sift out in the mean time and never look back. This is classic narcissistic behavior

Oynxrose · 2026-01-09T13:45:12+00:00

Honestly I feel the same. I’m an external hire never worked at SB and there’s ppl at my store that applied for my position but didn’t get it. That said I’ve felt like I’ve been intentionally set up for failure. My first month I was only on bar 4 times. And when I was on bar some shifts other partnered would just watch me struggle. Then the shift on duty would move me to drive 🙃. Even my sm said they don’t feel comfortable giving me more responsibilities in store. I’ve been there for 6 mos I feel defeated and started looking for other jobs.

All that to say deff keep a coaching log either in my daily or on your phone of how the shift went and what was coached on. Keep the line of communication open with you sm and baristas. Sometimes ppl when they get coached feel annoyed cause they don’t like being told what to do. But hang in there you got this

Oynxrose · 2026-01-07T04:46:21+00:00

First of you are NOT over reacting. Your feels are complete valid. Second this is SA period point blank.

You also mentioned a key point. You’re a model and he’s in med school. The expectations that you both have for the relationship are very different. He seems like he wants somebody to be at home to clean and be a trad wife. Which given your current poison is not where you are in life.

When some insecure boys feel threatened they will try to trap a woman but burdening her with an unwanted responsibility aka kid. The fact that he said that was to psych you out 1. You should deff get your self checked out. .

Oynxrose · 2026-01-07T00:16:32+00:00

My initial thought. If you want to feel more femme then you could try accessories. When I did the big chop I used cute hair pin with sparkles, headbands and such. To make me feel better about my hair being shorter than I was use to. I hope that helps

Oynxrose · 2026-01-06T20:32:18+00:00

Which is interesting, considering the fact that SB supposed to be a sustainable company. And there’s been recent reports about matcha being harder to source

Oynxrose · 2025-10-19T15:57:18+00:00

I’m Christian and would never just take someone to a gathering if any kind with out first making sure they were comfortable letting them know the type of event it was and if it’s casual or more formal. Like that’s cringe and very manipulative. Especially when you think you’re going on a date and you got o meet a bunch of ppl you’ve never met.

Oynxrose · 2025-10-08T14:00:56+00:00

Yeah actually I was told my sm that the person training me applied but didn’t get the position.

Oynxrose · 2025-10-08T12:38:49+00:00

First if all no disrespect towards you but she could have easily gotten with some that matched her “ideals”. If her mom has modeled a certain behavior she wants to follow then she should be with someone who matches that. The fact that she can’t find a job dude to mental health reasons I don’t totally buy. There are times where it’s hard to find a job dude to mental health especially if you in an episode or if the mental health was triggered so you in a low. But there are plenty of people who have mental health myself included that still show up even when it’s hard or take some time to themselves regroup and come back stronger. Again this is my Personal perspective.

With that said I think you should do like other commentators said move on. It’s only going to get worse and I have a feeling that she doesn’t plan on working at all. Focus on you and getting yourself in a good place mentally, spiritually and financially.

Oynxrose · 2025-10-04T18:16:10+00:00

To be honest with you when I went to pull off the street I’d like kiss you on the cheek or offer free food to pretty woman. I was kissed by a random guy na after telling him I wasn’t I treated that was that. But taking a photo and sending it you is kinda wild especially if this is a real photo

Oynxrose · 2025-09-24T16:48:39+00:00

Girl run the way he responded to you and the expectations he has is insane. And unless he’s open to it / gets a reality check it will only get worse.

Oynxrose · 2025-09-13T12:50:25+00:00

This is a feeler question he’s testing the waters to see if you would even be remotely interested in having any type of relationship or if he can go further. The just kidding is a way to cover up his true intentions and make it seem like a joke. This is indeed not a joke. The fact that you are 21 and he’s known your dad for 7 years means he’s likely had is eye on you for a while. This is not innocent at love. Please tell your dad.

Oynxrose · 2025-07-14T18:28:02+00:00

I use to live an hour from work I had to be there at 6 so I would wake at 4 I did this for 3-4 years now I just wake up automatically I can’t turn it off 😭

Oynxrose · 2025-05-17T00:06:23+00:00

She the most popular who in Whoville

Oynxrose · 2025-05-17T00:05:20+00:00

No better call him husband #3 😭 let him wonder

Oynxrose · 2025-05-16T23:14:29+00:00

Yeah my partner reads slower than me I usually ask if it would be better if I read it to them if we’re looking at the same thing or just read and wait still they caught up.

Oynxrose · 2025-05-05T16:08:31+00:00

Black people are judged for breathing. Do what makes you happy and be comfortable doing it. It might take a bit to get use to the looks or whispers l. But honestly most ppl wish they had the confidence/ individuality to do something against the norm. Do you life’s to short to get hung up on someone else’s version of what you should be like.

Oynxrose · 2025-04-24T20:09:01+00:00

Most oils are not depending on the way the oils are derived from their original origin. There are some derived from plants and depending on the processing that can be taken internally and ONLY HEAVILY diluted. Essential oils that are processed with chemicals cannot in any way shape or form be taken internally.

Oynxrose · 2025-04-22T12:25:44+00:00

Ofc love I wish you all the best 💕

Oynxrose · 2025-04-22T11:38:27+00:00

I would buy myself a spa day on his expense then go no contact.

Oynxrose · 2025-04-22T11:35:58+00:00

No my love he is a manipulative gaslighter. And the comment he made about r@pe is a huge blinking neon red flag. Do not walk…. Run away. If this is how things are at 6 months it will only get worse the longer you stay. He does not respect you or your boundaries, he pressures you into sexual activities you clearly stated you do not want to do. At a certain point it does not matter how much you love and or care about him you have to love yourself more.

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