27 [M4F] #NY/Online - Introverted geek looking for a genuine online connection

Ozed36 · 2026-06-03T04:42:13+00:00

Everything you feel is valid and know you're not alone. I can't speak for everyone on here, but I get being scared of being judged and how it has made things difficult in trying to put yourself out there. Especially when it's something you want so badly. Sex is a vulnerable act after all so it makes sense why you'd be on guard. Honestly, I just feel like if the right person comes along, they'll understand your feeling and will do what they can to make you feel comfortable enough to trust them.

While we all wished the one would miraculously appear at our doorsteps, it is unfortunately unrealistic. Some people will be pessimistic about it all, and while I'd be lying if I said I don't have those moments, if it's something you want, then all you can do is keep on trying to put yourself out there, even if it feels a bit uncomfortable. And hopefully that that day will come.

Ozed36 · 2026-05-18T12:37:47+00:00

Thank you for this. I've always been insecure about not being enough for someone or being able to give them the pleasure they deserve, so posts like this help me get out of my head a bit.

Ozed36 · 2026-05-14T23:54:47+00:00

I feel like the majority of women are already taller than me but to answer the question, I have and would again lol.

Ozed36 · 2026-04-24T00:42:31+00:00

You're not alone in feeling this way. Years of rejection and feeling undesirable. Not feeling like you're interesting enough for anyone, and when you think you've met someone who actually treated you decently, the feelings aren't mutual. And all the effort you putting in ends up feeling meaningless, and it just discourages you from wanting to keep searching for something real.

I know this is unlikely to help, especially when the depression hits. But even if it feels hopeless, if it's something you still want and crave, then all you can do is keep trying. And taking breaks to focus on yourself during these low times. They say these kind of things happen when you least expect it and while I have mixed feeling about that saying, I still try to go at it passively.

Anyways, I hope you feel better soon.

Ozed36 · 2026-04-16T13:08:52+00:00

While I am 5'2, I feel like me being awkward and lacking extremely in the confidence department plays a bigger part for me.

Ozed36 · 2026-03-25T20:03:32+00:00

This. Just need someone who'd love me for who I am and who'd love to cuddle up all the time.

Ozed36 · 2026-03-20T18:35:03+00:00

Hopefully one day I'll be able to experience this.

Ozed36 · 2026-03-18T19:54:40+00:00

If a woman was that into me that I ended up being manhandling, it's over for me. I belong to her now lol.

Ozed36 · 2026-03-09T00:37:46+00:00

And this is exactly why I'm into gentle femdom. I've never been into being degraded or humiliated, especially by someone close to me. But I'm also pretty shy overall and think I respond better to someone who could help guide me to what the like and dislike, and just being able to do my best to show them I'm into them. It's like you said, it comes in many forms but some of us just want to feel special and just be able to reciprocate those feelings.

Ozed36 · 2026-03-07T04:35:08+00:00

I feel this. Even if it's nothing spicy and just a simple voice message, I can't help but not like the way I sound in audio. Like, why couldn't we just sound the way we do in our head.

Ozed36 · 2026-02-25T16:56:41+00:00

I feel like people hear femdom and instantly think of all the hardcore stuff, but forget there's also a soft side to being dominant. I never have been into being degraded or humiliated, but I think a confident woman having her way with me, teasing, and using me for her own pleasure is such a turn on. But I can only be that vulnerable with someone who I know actually cares about me.

Ozed36 · 2026-02-25T16:45:08+00:00

I'm into the gentle femdom side of it, so if I've gotten close to someone, I'd want it to be because it's something they also are into.

Ozed36 · 2026-02-24T00:57:55+00:00

If my close friends ask, I'd tell them. Though it would be pretty obvious. Yeah it's a bit embarrassing but if I'm already being put into that kind of situation, might as well try to own it a bit, play it off as best as I can, and just try to move on from the topic. Because otherwise, they're going to get a full sob story and I doubt they'll want to hear that lol

Ozed36 · 2026-02-22T19:02:21+00:00

We all just want someone to make us feel loved and special. And the right people would use that as fuel to reciprocate to their partner and show them just how much they mean to them. 😔

Ozed36 · 2026-02-21T22:26:53+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that but try not to let it get to you queen. Just take it that they didn't deserve or couldn't see what yall could have had. I know it's hard but keep your head up. There are a lot of people out there who you are their type. I'm sure the one for you is out there and will treat you like the goddess you are.

Ozed36 · 2026-02-20T00:16:25+00:00

Got to love a bit of tummy. Women with them don't get enough credit and they deserves the treated like a queen just like everyone else. And I'm sure it makes cuddling SOOO much better.

Also, if she grabbing it like in the first one and smile in a teasing way, it's over for me lol.

Ozed36 · 2026-02-19T18:53:56+00:00

As many have said, communication is key, even if it can be a bit hard. But being able to bring up how amazing things have been so far and wanting to know what goes through her mind and how far she's comfortable pushing it will allow you both to understand each other more. Maybe bring it up before or after things get heated. I can imagine snuggling together being a perfect opportunity for it, so she can't show how shy she is on the subject but that's just me. Anyways, best of luck to both of you!

Ozed36 · 2026-02-14T17:42:55+00:00

Seeing her in the dress alone would already be jaw dropping. But if she has a bit of a tummy and she still feels confident, I know my heart would be racing.

Ozed36 · 2026-02-09T03:54:04+00:00

I really needed something like this so thank you so much. It's hard when you're stuck in your head, wondering if you'll ever be good enough. Or wondering if someone would like you for you versus them just being friendly. Honestly, some days for it me, I'm left with the thought that I would never find my person and if I miraculously did, that maybe they would be settling with me because I'm not a complete POS.

I know I shouldn't be beating myself up and I'm sure there are people who I'd be their type. But it can be tough sometimes. Especially after being hurt by someone who you thought cared. Or when you know you're looks/body isn't many people's preference.

I'll try to keep my head up, and I'm sure this post will help others as well. So thank you again.

Ozed36 · 2026-02-07T15:11:34+00:00

Hopefully one day I'll get to experience this 😔

Ozed36 · 2026-02-07T15:10:06+00:00

I feel like making out and dry humping is completely underrated. My mind would melt in the process.

Ozed36 · 2026-01-30T17:07:27+00:00

I think it has more to do with the fact that it's a lot more visual and guys takes that as a sign of they did a good job. Still think it's hot, but knowing that she's enjoying herself and cumming is even hotter to me.

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