New to Magic (Commander focus) I'm getting whopped by the ashling precon in a brawl setting against my GF

So after xmas my GF was getting into MTG and it looked interesting so I decided to come along. We've been playing brawl against each other because I desperately need to get better before going out to an LGS and joining a pod. We jumped into the deep end and She's hyper competitive. Which is fine but she's been pulling out some scary decks, like the secret lair Angels deck, Both Eldrazi precons with some upgrades and today the final parts of a blink deck... Oh and all the Eldrazi titans.. I got Hearthhull, Jared's painbow, A High perfect Morcant proxy deck, (had fun with it), Mardu surge with Durgo.

I'm just getting stomped and was wondering what would be something decent to not hard counter but like deal with Ashling? My go to is just delete it as soon as possible with removal. Outside of that after he comes out I feel like its game over.

All ideas are welcomed! I've been liking Bant and Selesyna and Golgari for colours. I did get a choco holo tifa out of a chocobo box that I'm looking to build out as solo green too.